Prior to the restrictions, there was a two tier system of deciding upon whether your family was complete.
Dependant upon benefits: would it be nice to have more? Yes, or no?
Once that decision was made, the state paid for it. Even made a larger property available if insufficient housing existed.
Not in receipt of benefits: can we afford more? Can we juggle work hours and afford childcare to make it work? Do we have room for more? Can we afford a larger house? Yes, or no?
We had a system that significantly discriminated against tax payers, in favour of non tax payers. It was unfair and needed to be addressed.
I know that is a sweeping statement, and each individual's circumstances are different. I know that divorce happens, rape happens. These are exceptions, and I am not talking about those cases.
Children should NOT suffer, but parents ALWAYS need to factor affordability into their decisions at point of conception. This was not happening, and something needed to change.