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Garden supper this evening. Would it be reasonable to suggest that guests might leave the table for the football?

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LemonRoses · 03/07/2021 10:12

We have a ten people arriving for supper this evening. We plan to eat on the terrace, with a 7pm start to catch the last of any sunshine. Clearly if they arrive at 7.15, have drinks and warm spiced nuts/olives then sit down to a starter of crab, we’re not going to be serving the entree until well past 8pm.

I don’t know two of the couples. My guess would be that three, maybe four, of the men would want to see the match. I don’t think most of the women would be particularly interested.

My problem is I wasn’t aware there was a football match this evening and I rather suspect some guests will want to see it.

Do we;

  • open the doors so people can pop in and out?
  • suggest those that wish cut their food at table and then eat of their knees with a fork whilst watching the television?
  • suggest we watch together later?
  • not mention to football and hope nobody else does?
  • arrange regular update messages from someone who is watching?

If a match is at 8pm, what time will it finish? Should we defer eating until after the match but add in more substantial canapés?

OP posts:
Thedogscollar · 03/07/2021 23:00

@LemonRoses

Summerfruit cheesecake sundae or affogato.
What the hell is affogato?
CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 23:01

You're right @VerticalHorizon - I've been the one relaying the results to everyone at home!!!

midsomermurderess · 03/07/2021 23:02

Is this the only site on the internet you can use, collar?

CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 23:03

@Thedogscollar

It was suggested upthread this was an Italian midfielder but actually it's this: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affogato

Grin
GolfEchoRomeoTangoIndia · 03/07/2021 23:03

Affogato is amazing stuff. It’s just good quality vanilla ice cream with an espresso poured over it, but it really hits the spot on a hot day. Most decent gelato places will do you one while the DC dither over their choice of flavours.

If this thread has given us nothing else, (and frankly it’s given us a lot else) it’s taught one person what an affogato is.

LaMarschallin · 03/07/2021 23:04

I don't understand!

If you're going to channel a character from the Jilly Cooper Rutshire series, why pick Helen Campbell-Black?

I realise her American (and middle class) background help to make allowances for the odd tiny gaffe, but she's so boringly organised and concerned with doing the right thing.

I bet if the "new couple" had asked her round to theirs first, she'd have gently explained that they should wait for invitations from the established set.
Mind you, so would Valerie "Mousie" Jones.

Much better to have gone for broke and tried to project one of the real toffs who just seem to stick some Coronation Chicken, salad and bread on a trestle table in the orangery and tell people to get on with it.

Or, better still, be Maud O'Hara and spend your day having your hair set in Medusa ringlets and let everyone else sort the party.
Then use the excuse of England scoring a goal (Declan looking boot-faced because it's not Ireland) to fling yourself into Rupert's arms in excitement...

Ahem.

I think I've read too much Jilly Cooper.
But I don't think I'm alone in that... Smile

CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 23:07

Oh @LaMarschallin that takes me back!

midsomermurderess · 03/07/2021 23:12

Teaching them about Google (other search engines, of course, being available) might be more useful.

LaMarschallin · 03/07/2021 23:16

CandyLeBonBon

Oh LaMarschallin that takes me back!

Smile
CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 23:17

@midsomermurderess

Teaching them about Google (other search engines, of course, being available) might be more useful.
Well yes, but benevolence is in the air!
VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:18

Rupert's not been seen for the last 30 minutes...

CandyLeBonBon · 03/07/2021 23:22

@VerticalHorizon

Rupert's not been seen for the last 30 minutes...
No change there then!
VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:25

LaMarshallin's gone off-piste too...

might be too many Pims!

keylimegreen · 03/07/2021 23:25

@Amillionnc

"Arson fire dipping sauce is something that seems it could be right up my alley "

It's when it's coming out of your alley that you need to be worried...

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:26

[quote keylimegreen]@Amillionnc

"Arson fire dipping sauce is something that seems it could be right up my alley "

It's when it's coming out of your alley that you need to be worried...[/quote]
I think that's the very definition of something back-firing on her!

LaMarschallin · 03/07/2021 23:32

VerticalHorizon

LaMarshallin's gone off-piste too...

Ay'm just trayin' to find Fred-Fred to tell him warm nuts are bad for him.
And Ay'm not sure Ay want him havin' crabs either...

Frownette · 03/07/2021 23:35

I did google hot olives earlier and it really is a thing, got rave reviews! I'm now stuck with a depressed Ukranian Sad

What an exciting night

I've been in my sickbed all week so this cheered me up a bit

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:35

hAvE yOu hAd a WeE tiPPle, peRChanCe?

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:36

I Googled Hot Olive and let me tell you, it was an eye opener!
Popeye would be turning in his grave.

JudgeJ · 03/07/2021 23:49

@LimeJellyforBrains

I remember being at a wedding in on 5th July 1980. Now that was a bad choice of date/time! It was Bjorn Borg's historic 5th win at Wimbledon. The main reception room was practically deserted. Almost all the guests, including the bride and groom, were crammed into the small bar that had a TV. Grin
Oh how I remember that! We listened to it driving home and neither of us would get out of the car to go inside and put the TV on, sat there for about an hour, maybe one of the players went off for a comfort break but we got inside eventually!
JudgeJ · 03/07/2021 23:55

@JudgeJ - Do not mentioned football for the next week for so!

I was convinced at 10.05 that it had gone into extra time, one of my daughters usually rings to tell me I can look. I changed channels to watch something and the previous programme was going off, the announcer said And well done England! I then spent a few minutes checking that I'd not recorded it. A few months ago I watched to 2003 Rugby Final and I was concerned I'd jinx that!

VerticalHorizon · 03/07/2021 23:56

[quote JudgeJ]**@JudgeJ - Do not mentioned football for the next week for so!

I was convinced at 10.05 that it had gone into extra time, one of my daughters usually rings to tell me I can look. I changed channels to watch something and the previous programme was going off, the announcer said And well done England! I then spent a few minutes checking that I'd not recorded it. A few months ago I watched to 2003 Rugby Final and I was concerned I'd jinx that![/quote]
You just mentioned it!

Bloomin' 'eck. We're doomed!

drspouse · 03/07/2021 23:56

you need a cup of Bovril and a pie.
And the Bovril must be in a tartan flask.

PerciphonePuma · 04/07/2021 01:52

'Supper?!' Hmm

moonbedazzled · 04/07/2021 02:04

Ah, @LemonRoses

Eating on the terrace...😍