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AIBU If I split from my partner who works 7 days a week

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Itsmeagainandagain · 30/06/2021 21:00

I work full time my partner works 7 days a week, contributes little to nothing to the household and wants me to do things like cut his hair, make dinners when I'm just finished work. I do all the housework, I cut the grass, look after our kids, I'm absolutely exhausted. I'm up at half 4 in the morning not getting to bed until late.
Im sick of it, he doesn't listen and I'm very unhappy with it all.
AIBU?

OP posts:
Lampzade · 01/07/2021 12:07

Op, you need to get out or get him out. Can you imagine another five years with this cocklodger? He will drag you down and ultimately destroy your life.
You may need to get a restraining order against him. Please contact Women’s Aid for help

babybunny123 · 01/07/2021 12:30

I really feel for you, but your life cannot get any worse if you get rid of him. He is clearly a bully, as others have said if he kicks off ring the police.

CustardyCreams · 01/07/2021 12:34

Do you have a parent, sibling, cousin, friend who could come and stay for a few nights when you kick him out? For the sake of your kids, you shouldn’t put up with his abuse.

Zari29 · 01/07/2021 12:35

You poor thing op. Good advice from pp. How old are your DC? It's the first step realizing he is abusive and wanting to leave. X

PrincessNutella · 01/07/2021 14:52

From my American perspective, I can definitely see how you British ladies invented the wonderful word "cocklodger." Since I started reading Mumsnet, I have been astounded by the amount of cocklodgery that the British male seems to get away with, along with the high decibel crisp chewing etc. Please end this cheekfuckery and toss him in the bin now!

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