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Nursing is Killing Me. I'm Broken and Don't Know What to Do.

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Puppiesarethebest · 29/06/2021 21:50

Please help me. I feel at my lowest. I'm 40 years old. I've been a nurse since I left school and I don't know any other work. Our ward sister is a complete bitch to me. Has been for years but got so bad lately that my GP signed me off work sick. I can't face going back to work. I'm a nervous wreck because of her. Everyone sees what she does to me. She doesn't hide that she's singled me out for bullying but nobody does a thing. Nobody supported me when I tried to stick up for myself. She even does it in front of her own superiors and they do nothing, so she knows she's been given licence to bully me. I feel very let down by the NHS and I'm totally sick of it. My confidence is shot!. I had 5 interviews for other nurse jobs, some of them at lower levels but I didn't even get those. My confidence is shot! I don't want to be a nurse anymore EVER but what else can I do that pays as well? I'm interested in beauty therapy and childcare but both pay peanuts, don't they? I can't see myself going back, but I don't know what else I can do. Please help. Sorry, I know this is in the wrong section but I couldn't see how to post it elsewhere.

OP posts:
Letsallscreamatthesistene · 30/06/2021 14:30

Have you ever thought of leaving hospital based work and moving to GP Nursing? I did and its such a refreshing change.

Goodmum1234 · 30/06/2021 14:56

As a qualified nurse please look at training to do Botox snd fillers. £250 for 20 mins!
I’d love to do it but I’m a qualified teacher, wishing I’d done nursing x

Babyroobs · 30/06/2021 14:59

I worked 35 years being miserable as a Nurse, working in mostly bitchy , backstabbing places. Honestly there is more to life as I found out when I left a few years ago. Yes I earn less but am happier in what I do and wish I'd left sooner.

RosieGirl27 · 30/06/2021 20:44

I would definitely look into doing aesthetics and maybe agency work on the side to keep your pin? Some agencies pay £30 per hour in certain trusts...

MrsPelligrinoPetrichor · 30/06/2021 20:47

Private sector?

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