[quote InTheDrunkTank]@cabingirl I'm no saying she shouldn't be allowed to do it (althoughit's annoying have to wade through so much junk if you actually want to buy something). And no she isn't doing that, her new sofa was delivered and she had to pay for the old one to be scrapped after having it sit in her dining room taking up space for a month![/quote]
Ah - well it takes some people longer to learn a lesson than others!
And there is a huge amount of social psychology involved in human interactions involving money - which is why the best salespeople don't take stuff personally.
Your sofa lady sounds like a real life example of the social psychology experience The Ultimatum Game.
In the game, two people are matched together tasked with splitting an amount of money between them say $100. One person is the proposer - they get to set what the split will be. One is the responder - they get to decide if the proposed split is accepted, if they don't accept the proposal no one gets any money.
Logic says the responder should accept any split which gives them more than zero because some money is better than no money, right?
But the experiment shows that when the proposal drops lower than say a 70/30 split the proposal is more frequently rejected.
Human beings would rather no one gets anything than see the other person get so much more than them!
Your sofa lady's feelings made her reject anyone getting her sofa as a bargain even if it caused her more money and pain not to let it go cheaply.
More on the Ultimatum game here: www.sciencedirect.com/topics/neuroscience/ultimatum-game