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To think that if you let your kids....

149 replies

LemonSherbetFancies · 17/06/2021 17:13

Swim/play in the river, you should not be surprised if they come down with a flu/cold the next day?

OP posts:
ghostyslovesheets · 17/06/2021 17:44

I was staying in a 'cottage' (shack) with a gang of mates once and we had no running water - we brushed our teeth and washed in the stream - until the last day when we discovered a dead sheep further up stream

no one died though

or cot the flu

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 17/06/2021 17:45

I can’t help wondering whether the OP is from a non U.K. background. When we lived among a largely Mediterranean-culture community in the Middle East, so many of the mothers were obsessed with the idea that e.g. going to the swimming pool would give their children colds. And it was so hot there for much of the year.

Electricmouse · 17/06/2021 17:48

Best thread ever.

You can catch some things from rivers
But not flu and the common cold.

It is probably unrelated.

BirthdayCakeBelly · 17/06/2021 17:48

The child needs a coronavirus test.
I don’t think he contracted it from the river.

Hardbackwriter · 17/06/2021 17:49

Swimming in cold water is actually good for your immune system. Plus swimming in open water is one of life's great pleasures - once you've tried it it's hard to go back to a pool!

OhRene · 17/06/2021 17:54

@LemonSherbetFancies

Neighbours sons went swimming in a river yesterday and today the youngest woke up with a fever and sore throat. Mum was really surprised by it and couldn't work out why he had got ill. Maybe just me but I would have thought it was self explanatory.
Your neighbour is sensible.

You however sound like my MIL who won't allow me to give my kids chocolate milkshakes because they'll cause diahorrea. No vests or getting rained on or going outside wet means the kids will catch a cold. Milk being drank on a hot day will curdle in the tummies and make them ill, and kids shouldn't drink milk and orange juice within a short amount of time.

viques · 17/06/2021 17:54

@viques

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GameSetMatch · 17/06/2021 17:55

😂

groundedagain · 17/06/2021 17:55

😂😂

Thefaceofboe · 17/06/2021 17:56

GrinGrinGrin

MarianneUnfaithful · 17/06/2021 17:57

@LemonSherbetFancies

They are not the cleanest of places though are they?
Depends which part of which river Confused

My kids have swum / played in many lovely safe rivers.

I wouldn’t let them swim in an urban / industrial river, for example, for fear of chemical contamination, fungal or skin conditions or gastro bugs and general filth.

Hellocatshome · 17/06/2021 17:58

Possibly Weils disease.

skodadoda · 17/06/2021 17:58

@wildeverose

Your child can get bacteria or an infection from A dirty river or stream. You absolutely can't get Cold or flu from a river
This. You can get Weil’s disease or an ear infection; not a cold or flu.
MarianneUnfaithful · 17/06/2021 18:02

The boy needs a PCR test.

If he has COVID symptoms this morning he will have been infected earlier than yesterday afternoon.

However fever and sore throat could maybe be a non-cold or flu illness and might be connected with river swim, depending on what it is.

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 17/06/2021 18:03

Sore throat / fever are symptoms of Delta variant Covid which presumably was caught at school last week. The child needs to isolate and get a test.

PixieKitten · 17/06/2021 18:06

Worse things than flu/cold can be caught in the river. Rat urine if swallowed can be very serious. Google Wiel's disease

denverRegina · 17/06/2021 18:09

Yeah you're right OP - she's such a thick shit mother, bet her kids eyes are square too from sitting too close to the telly Hmm

User0ne · 17/06/2021 18:09

I live rurally, near clean rivers (about as clean as you can get in England). We take our kids wild swimming/paddling in the river regularly in the summer - it's 15miles to the nearest pool.

I would be less surprised by a stomach bug tbh. A fever and sore throat could be symptoms of many things and I would probably put it down to something caught from the river (in the absence of another obvious cause)

Planttrees · 17/06/2021 18:12

Not a cold or flu www.winchesterhospital.org/health-library/article?id=156976

Maybe something else from the water if it wasn't clean.

ScottishNewbie · 17/06/2021 18:12

V&D yes. Cold or flu no.

Somethingsnappy · 17/06/2021 18:23

There is evidence to suggest that exposure to cold can suppress your immune system, making you a little more vulnerable to infection. Obviously, the virus wasn't caught from the river, but the lad may have been more susceptible to infection from whichever source as a result of being very cold.

PhilCornwall1 · 17/06/2021 18:23

Reminds me of my dad telling me why Cornwall didn't have a huge amount of covid cases.

Apparently it's all to do with the "sea air" killing the virus.

Onceuponatime1818 · 17/06/2021 18:24

I understand about colds/virus’ etc but we go to the beach regularly in the winter where my kids swim in the freezing sea and 1-2 days later they usually have a cough and a cold!

Frlrlrubert · 17/06/2021 18:25

I remember in my uni days many moons ago we did a practical involving lake water. We were specifically warned that if we came down with flu-like symptoms in the next week we should tell our GP we could have Weil's disease.

But swimming in rivers does not give you actual colds or flu. If they've got cold/flu/covid they got it from an infected human.

megletthesecond · 17/06/2021 18:26

You could catch something grim if sewage was discharged into the river that would probably make you feel like death warmed up.