Last week I became really unwell with the flu, had to leave work as I had got all dizzy and lightheaded and sweaty, then got home and slept. Had a high temperature, couldn't sleep all night from the pain in my ears and throat and was figiting and moaning all night between bouts of sleep and cold sweats. The following day my husband come home from work and I asked him if he could get me some ibuprofen, he said we didn't have any and said he would go back out (he had just done a food shop on his way home), I said I didn't want to put him out so he didn't go. Later on I was moaning in pain and he shouted what can he do to help, as if I was annoying him (probably was, I was annoying myself but I couldn't help it was in agony) I said I needed something stronger for the pain and he started an argument with me saying why didn't I tell him earlier etc etc. He came back and apologise whilst I lay crying from the pain and the inconvenience I had caused him...
When I got better I mentioned that it really hurt me how he reacted,. I feel like he doesn't care about me. He went into a supermarket and didn't once think I may need something for my illness - for me that would be second nature, my first priority. He told me I was overthinking again.
Just to add we've had this same arguement in the past, he does things without a passing thought of my thoughts or feelings to the matter, I stopped mentioning it and just accepted it but when I needed someone to care for and look after me it really hurt and genuinely believe he does not care for me.
Aibu to think this?