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Worst Human being you've ever known?

481 replies

thebatman · 05/06/2021 11:58

After life saving surgery at the start of the year I've been doing some soul searching and re-evaluating a lot in my life, and looking back it astonishes me that I put up with some truly awful people for so long, even when I knew what complete and utter unrepentant shits they were, so, can I ask, who is the worst Human being you have ever known and why?

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Ickythefirebobby · 05/06/2021 18:48

@Sometimesfraught82 why are you questioning and minimising what people are saying. You weren’t present during these examples. It’s not for you to question and try and negate what people are saying.

Thehouseofmarvels · 05/06/2021 18:48

My partner's mother, stepfather and siblings. They were not just evil to him though, his mother stole a valuable family heirloom from her cousin and when made to give it back had caused 4000 pounds worth of deliberate damage. Lied to her sister about where she lived. I'd have gone to the police but the cousin continued to send her xmas cards as she ' does not hold grudges'. His sister married ( now divorced) someone famous and developed a habit of being horrifically rude to service people/ restaurant wait staff and behaving as though she was better than everybody. When partner almost died of sepsis only his mother came to visit him in hospital. His sister actively refused to visit and they haven't spoken since. We are no contact.

Luckyjack22 · 05/06/2021 18:50

@Bluntness100 for you Flowers.... You were so kind to me on another thread (different user name) and gave me good advice even though I was a a bit of a plonkerGrin your story is so sad... Sad

beigerocket · 05/06/2021 18:51

I’m a teacher and worked for the most horrendous head teacher ever.

She used to lie and falsify all kinds of data and observation to get people that she didn’t like out of the school by saying they were inadequate when they were not. Droves left every year with the year I left 7 teachers left at the same time.

She was a relentless bully and hated staff with children to the point if anyone was off because their children were poorly she would call and email constantly (this was even if the children were hospitalised as one of mine were once)

I don’t say hate lightly but I absolutely despise this woman for the promising careers she has destroyed and the amount of people I saw struggle with their mental health after her vicious bullying.

Wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire, in fact, I’d probably pour petrol on.

Thehouseofmarvels · 05/06/2021 18:55

I think how someone treats people below them at work or service people in shops and restaurants says a lot about them.

OhWhyNot · 05/06/2021 18:58

My step dad. Jailed for physically abusing me but after he left prison the torture went on him sending letters turning up not just me my family too he didn’t give a fuck about court orders. He enjoyed me being so scared as a four year old that I would pee myself and beg not to be beaten he would smile it bought him joy

Professionally quite a few but I work with ex offenders some people should never be free but sadly are

GetInThereLewis · 05/06/2021 18:58

Justletmelogon There is nothing humane about the meat industry. They all walk through the doors into that slaughter house. I have worked in a slaughter house. Its fucking horrific.

Pebbledashery · 05/06/2021 19:01

@sunshinecake stop derailing this thread.

Whitchurch · 05/06/2021 19:04

@WomenAreBornNotWorn

Anyone who defends or funds the meat industry. Animals are in cages now,they can't even turn around,the first time they will see daylight is on their way to be killed. I don't understand how anyone can shrug off this suffering.
What bollocks is this? "Animals are in cages now". Do you every spend time in the countryside?
AcrossthePond55 · 05/06/2021 19:11

One is a man who used me when he was 'down and out' and then dumped me. He broke my heart in a million pieces and then rubbed my nose in it. He had the temerity to pat my hand and say with mock concern that I wasn't to commit suicide because he didn't love me anymore. As if!! Snapped me right out of my heartbreak, that did.

The other is a vile woman who was once my manager. She took great joy in singling a worker out and getting them fired. She'd torment them, set them up, refuse them help, then tell the 'big boss' they were incompetent. Her purpose was double: first in her twisted way she enjoyed the pain she caused and the actual act of sacking AND she advanced her career on their backs as being a 'house cleaner'. The big bosses never realized that she engineered each and every downfall. She tried to do it to me but I was just too damned good at my job AND the big boss knew it. If I saw this woman on fire I wouldn't piss on her to put her out. In fact I'd break out the fucking marshmallows.

Pinkylemons · 05/06/2021 19:12

My sister and her husband, truly horrible, selfish people.

LadyRoughDiamond · 05/06/2021 19:14

@Time40 VH, formerly of HC? Agreed, an utter cow.

Orgasmagorical · 05/06/2021 19:15

@maddiemookins16mum

My sister. Treated my elderly, frail mum like a piece of dirt. Could not even be bothered to check on her when she was poorly, to the point of when my mum phoned her to ask if she could possibly drop her in a pint of milk she screamed abuse at her. She was cold, heartless and cruel. There is no backstory btw. What scares me is my sister is now a carer for the elderly. The irony ☹️
Scumbucketcuntypeople often manage to get themselves into jobs that they think will make people admire them or give them kudos.
Iloveitall · 05/06/2021 19:17

@beigerocket

I’m a teacher and worked for the most horrendous head teacher ever.

She used to lie and falsify all kinds of data and observation to get people that she didn’t like out of the school by saying they were inadequate when they were not. Droves left every year with the year I left 7 teachers left at the same time.

She was a relentless bully and hated staff with children to the point if anyone was off because their children were poorly she would call and email constantly (this was even if the children were hospitalised as one of mine were once)

I don’t say hate lightly but I absolutely despise this woman for the promising careers she has destroyed and the amount of people I saw struggle with their mental health after her vicious bullying.

Wouldn’t piss on her if she was on fire, in fact, I’d probably pour petrol on.

Oh I wonder if this is the same headteacher I knew. Sounds very similar. Sad to think there could be two of them out there.
freckledsloth · 05/06/2021 19:20

The woman that I line managed who put in what was proven to be a completely made up grievance against me two weeks before I was due to finish for maternity leave after what had been a difficult pregnancy with several health scares, all of which she was aware of. She not only copied me into the detail of it but also my maternity cover, done deliberately to cause maximum stress and cloud my reputation. Thankfully my line manager realised pretty quickly that she was, quote, 'delusional' and that there was no evidence to support any of it but at the time it caused me a lot of stress and anxiety at a time when I was highly vulnerable. It opened my eyes to how bitter someone could be that they would deliberately want to do that knowing the potential implications on mine and my baby's health from the stress she knew it would cause. I'll never forgive her for it.

GetInThereLewis · 05/06/2021 19:21

Whitchurch The meat industry stretches beyond the uk. We still cage hens.

deathbypostitnote · 05/06/2021 19:22

The cruelty described on this thread is staggering and heartbreaking. With that said, I don't see how the vengeance is helpful. Genuinely, is there another way to respond? Hating the evil is one thing. I can't help but feel that taking pleasure in the imaginary torture of the perpetrator etc multiplies the hate in the world and extends the toxic impact of the abuse. If that's how you want to respond, it's your right, and I'm not pushing an agenda of forgiveness. But becoming someone who takes pleasure in the suffering of someone else seems to give the perpetrator ongoing power. Unless you'd be happy to say that and be that person outside the abuse, I'm sad that it has changed people in that way.

itsgettingwierd · 05/06/2021 19:26

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.independent.co.uk/news/accountant-was-executed-after-daylight-kidnap-1587472.html%3famp

I knew one of the 2 men convicted of murder through some work I did.

Amazing how people aren't what they seem.

Clearly I knew an absolutely vile cunt and just wasn't aware of it AngrySad

WelcomingSummer · 05/06/2021 19:26

A bit outing but anyway. I studied pharmacy at uni and after graduating in my home country you have to do 2000 hours work under the supervision of a registered pharmacist, submit assigments and take an exam to qualify. The pharmacist supervising me was awful, he never discussed, helped or gave any time to do my assignments plus kept me overtime at work every single day. He was an absolute bastard and made my life hell in my final year. Luckily I passed the exam first time and they didn't care my assignments we all late.

ElsieMc · 05/06/2021 19:26

These posts are so sad. Those posters with evil mothers in particular. Why would you visit such cruelty on your lovely daughters?

Very worrying is the number of Headteachers and staff in school posters report as cruel bullies. Good God, we have to send our children there. So horrible to hear of the bullying that has marred lives for years.

The cruellest woman I ever met worked for CAFCASS and God I so want to name her. She worked in the North West. I was a litigant in person, a grandparent carer and I did not toe the line. She set out to destroy me and even used the complaints I made against her as evidence of not looking after the children properly because I was "emotionally unavailable".

I had to point out to CAFCASS that I had cut my work hours down to 15 per week to offer the support the children needed and whilst they were at school, I had to work on the court case. I had to remind them that being a litigant in person up against a partner in a large firm of solicitors and a Head of Chambers barrister did mean I had to do my homework. But it was her who had imposed this burden upon me. I hope her life has been as unhappy as she made my grandson by recommending contact with a family he walked away from at 16 and never looked back.

Wearywithteens · 05/06/2021 19:27

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Myusernameisnotmyusernameno · 05/06/2021 19:28

@LaBellina

A very vile nasty sociopath named Sandra. She is the worst person that I ever met and I wish nothing but the very worst.

She really opened my eyes to how evil some people can be and that has truly made me feel a lot more unsafe, knowing that these sort of ‘people’ live among us.

I used to know a horrible Sandra as well. She was a right stuck up bitch
Mangofandangoo · 05/06/2021 19:28

My ex. I wouldn't put him out if he were on fire. Awful human.

Mankini · 05/06/2021 19:29

Why are so many of them outwardly pillars of the community / mum of the year etc? And why do so many of their close cabal not notice that they are 100% evil if you scratch the surface?

thatllberight · 05/06/2021 19:29

A former colleague who borrowed £££ from me while I was heavily pregnant, disappeared from work without serving her notice and (of course) without paying me back. She then sent me an abusive letter saying actually she didn't have to pay it back because she'd given me a few lifts so it was owed to her (despite her always refusing petrol money the 6 or so times she gave me a lift). She was racist, narrow minded and homophobic to boot. Horrible woman.

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