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To think some people haven't heard of Google?

35 replies

IanHBuckells · 23/05/2021 22:32

Other search engines are available.

I have a friend who regularly writes things in a group chat like "what time does XXX open?", "how do I get to A from B?" or "how much is a first class stamp?". This evening I actually looked something up ready to answer her then thought... "NO. YOU ARE A GROWN UP! FIGURE IT OUT YOURSELF!"

AIBU or this there a whole breed of fully fledged adults who have ability to think for themselves?

GrinI am exceptionally grumpy today.

OP posts:
bonfireheart · 23/05/2021 22:33

Everytime she asks send her a link to google

October2020 · 23/05/2021 22:34

"I've just googled it for you and...."

bonfireheart · 23/05/2021 22:34

Tbh this annoys me more at work where instead of checking the intranet, colleagues will send WhatsApp or Teams message asking...

JaneJeffer · 23/05/2021 22:34

It's called having a conversation.

KaleSlayer · 23/05/2021 22:35

When I see things like that on here, I always think it’s a way of having a chat, rather than actually wanting to know ‘how much a stamp is’ or whatever. I assume maybe they’re a bit lonely or struggling with something. But maybe you’re right and they just can’t think for themselves. I don’t know. Answer or ignore. 🤷🏻‍♀️

EnglishGirlApproximately · 23/05/2021 22:37

I had a work acquaintance call me on my day off this week to ask me how far the coach station is from a meeting he had to go to in another city. It took me 30 seconds on Google to answer. This person books other people's travel for a living Hmm

Lockheart · 23/05/2021 22:53

Haven't you read AIBU? Half the posters here are asking questions they could just google themselves.

CarolandDarryl · 23/05/2021 22:58

If I’m feeling particularly caustic I will share a LMGTFY link...

letmegooglethat.com/?q=how+do+i+use+google

APJ1 · 23/05/2021 23:00

You need this site for responding to her. letmegooglethat.com/

IanHBuckells · 23/05/2021 23:04

@JaneJeffer

It's called having a conversation.
I would agree if it led to anything more but normally she just replies thanks and that's it!
OP posts:
IanHBuckells · 23/05/2021 23:05

[quote APJ1]You need this site for responding to her. letmegooglethat.com/[/quote]
Perfect Grin

OP posts:
IanHBuckells · 23/05/2021 23:06

[quote CarolandDarryl]If I’m feeling particularly caustic I will share a LMGTFY link...

letmegooglethat.com/?q=how+do+i+use+google[/quote]
I can understand why this is a thing!

OP posts:
SaturdayRocks · 23/05/2021 23:07

@JaneJeffer

It's called having a conversation.
Except it’s not, is it?

A question and a 1-2 word answer is not a convo.

OP - YANBU. I often think that of threads on here.

KaleSlayer · 23/05/2021 23:08

I would agree if it led to anything more but normally she just replies thanks and that's it!

That’s quite funny then. You are ‘google’ for her. 🤣 Try giving a wrong answer and see if she gives you feedback. 😬🤣

LMGTFY · 23/05/2021 23:09

Ooh I've not used this username in a while😁

Librariesmakeshhhhappen · 23/05/2021 23:17

It happens on here all the time too. Like a couple days ago, there was a thread chatting about that article "my wife divorced me for leaving dishes by the sink" and someone posted "have you got a link to that, I'd like to read it again".

In the time it took them to type that, and wait for s reply, they could have googled it a hundred times.

Flowerlane · 24/05/2021 05:34

Happens on Facebook a lot especially the local sites. A couple of times people have replied ‘er why don’t you google’ and it’s been replied to with ‘I thought it would be quicker to ask here’ or ‘I only wanted some help don’t bother replying if you are not going to be helpful’ someone once replied to one of them with ‘ if you can use Facebook you can definitely use google’!

I sometimes think it’s done for attention or they know someone particular will see and think ‘oh I wonder what so and so wants that for’Grin

mainsfed · 24/05/2021 05:53

YANBU, it’s like they don’t trust the results they get.

Or they could be using Bing, which is just awful.

sbhydrogen · 24/05/2021 05:57

I have a friend who does that, too. It's very annoying, it is SO EASY to find out the answers to her question.

SallyCinnabon · 24/05/2021 06:41

A couple of times people have replied ‘er why don’t you google’ and it’s been replied to with ‘I thought it would be quicker to ask here’

People are weird. How is it quicker? You type in a question and get an immediate response in Google. You type a question on Facebook/a forum and have to wait for someone else to respond (and might not be the right info). Some people are insane 😆

gurglebelly · 24/05/2021 07:21

It's just attention seeking

Imnothereforthedrama · 24/05/2021 07:33

Meh I’m grumpy so I never reply to anyone who does that on social media. To me it’s like wiping someone’s arse for them .
I also know 2 people that I’ll message and say I’ll meet you at 3pm then reply ok . The next message will be what time we meeting? . I think why didn’t you look at the last message I sent it’d be quicker than asking the question and me replying.

DisappearingGirl · 24/05/2021 14:00

I also know 2 people that I’ll message and say I’ll meet you at 3pm then reply ok . The next message will be what time we meeting? . I think why didn’t you look at the last message I sent it’d be quicker than asking the question and me replying.

Yes! I have a friend who does this. She is really lovely and otherwise very intelligent. I always think, why don't you scroll back 4 messages in our chat thread and there's your answer? I'm too polite to say that though so I just tell her again!

DonttouchthatLarry · 24/05/2021 14:01

I have a friend who does this all the time! I'm far too polite to point her to LMGTFY but another of her friends must have had enough the other day and just replied "Google" Grin

BarbaraofSeville · 24/05/2021 14:14

I don't think it's about having a conversation or it being quicker, and to me it just seems weird and a waste of time.

If you want to have a conversation, there's no shortage of 'conversational' threads on here about life, the universe and everything else. So start or join one of those.

It's almost like people ask a question and don't care whether the answer is correct or not. What usually happens is that someone asks a really vague question where having the correct answer is quite important, in that, if they act on the wrong answer, it's likely to cost them money or inconvenience at least. Then they get half a dozen wrong answers, say thanks, and ignore the one correct answer.

Thread goes something like:

OP - going on holiday, what's my luggage allowance?

Poster 1 gives the answer for British Airways as it applied in 1985 where you could take the sofa and they would have let you on with it.

Poster 2 says 'we went on Ryanair and even my handbag was too big, they took it off me, charged me £57 to put it in the hold, stole all my holiday cash and DD was ill on the flight because her medication was in my handbag'

Poster 3 says 'which airline and what have you paid for' to which the OP gets all stroppy about only asking a simple question and not expecting an interrogation, but it's Easyjet if you must know.

Poster 4 says 'look on the Easyjet website' and gives the link to the luggage allowance page.

The OP then says 'I'm not clicking on random links, I thought someone could just answer a simple question for me' and flounces off.

And yet that's better than just googling Confused.

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