The trouble is that whilst I am sure the vast majority of GP receptionists are decent people under extreme pressure there does seem to be a key contingent who love the power and using the gatekeeping system to create their own personal fiefdom. In a scenario where that behaviour has devastating impact to unwell people there will be a reaction.
I've met some amazing NHS admin staff , one of whom , a receptionist in a maternity unit , genuinely was part of a group that saved mine and DS2 life for which I am eternally grateful.
That said a few weeks ago a GP receptionist told my 74 year old Df to stop making a fuss about shoulder pain and to do an e consult because they didn't have time for minor issues on one to one's (heard on speakerphone by a family member and that was the exact wording used ). Fine we accept she was rude but we all said she must be under a lot of pressure. DF diagnosed through online system and messages from GP with shingles and put on medication that is dangerous with Warfarin which he is also on
After DF and DM contacted once I had alerted then they needed to get him a fast INR test due to this interaction. The receptionist refused to put him on the telephone call list twice as he hadn't given enough time for the medication to work. Wouldn't let him explain what the concern was , spent a good 2 minutes telling him overworked and stressed she was. Dsis tried , told to go away (sort of fair enough as DP have full capacity ) , finally I tried and professionally have the right words to say to scare , finally got the nurse practitioner on who told him to stop the meds immediately and sent him straight to the hospital.
INR result through the roof. Diagnosis was wrong and admitted to be so. DF then starts having his legs go under from him and fell twice a week later. Rang for a GP appt and receptionists response was "Long Sigh ...oh you have created another issue have you ? Let's start this rigmarole again I suppose ". She then told him he wasn't classed as urgent and would be given an appointment in three weeks time. My Dsis made them put it on speakerphone so there could be no doubt what she said after the previous experience (the previous speakerphone was not deliberate ). My DP are going to A and E tomorrow if they can't get an earlier appointment at the emergency 8 am line as today his lips have started to grey out and we recognise the symptoms from a heart bypass he has had in the past. If I could make them go earlier I would but they are worried about putting extra pressure on A and E who are overworked on weekends.
So yeah , I would have a lot more sympathy of people didn't keep having these experiences and hiding behind how awful their jobs are. I am sympathetic to a point. Hell I've spent 23 years in Social Care , very very frontline. I promise you this if DF has long term issues from this I will light that receptionists name ( and the GP I fully recognise she did not misdiagnosed but she certainly blocked access) throughout every ombudsman relevant. I will scream from the rooftops. I've spent a career getting treated with abuse and vilification but I chose to do it and it has never impacted how I deal with service users.
Whilst I am sure there are decent ones hiding behind the emotive nature of the job and Covid does not absolve the ones who are more interested in their own pity party than supporting genuinely vulnerable patients. Just claiming you are one of the nice ones so it's not fair to complain is not on.