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One night stands/casual sex

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Chickenchowmein21 · 19/05/2021 14:16

Me and a girl in the office are having a discussion about one night stands/casual sex.
She has been in a relationship for many years and has no children. Myself on the other hand have just getting out of a long term relationship and have children.
We got into the conversation of dating and casual sex etc and I said I had been tied down for so many years that if the kids were at their dads then it would be nice to meet someone to have round to just “have a bit fun”. She looked at me in total disgust and said I was being very disrespectful to my kids/their dad by entertaining men in my home.
Now I’m not gonna jump on someone every weekend.. and probably won’t for a long time! But surely my kids shouldn’t come into this? Just looking on peoples thoughts!

OP posts:
1FootInTheRave · 19/05/2021 19:06

I have never done the casual sex thing. Mainly due to my own issues and concerns.

I wholeheartedly support others that do though.

Your colleague is bu.

Itwasntlaurieitwasme · 19/03/2024 15:19

LigPatin · 19/05/2021 14:42

@AintNobodyHereButUsChickens

It's up to you really but I'm a swinger and most other swingers I know won't meet at home if they have children. They say they don't want to bring strange people into their kids safe spaces (whether kids are at home or elsewhere). Generally people you meet from swingers sites are verified as genuine by other members and/or site verification too, so slightly less risky than a randomer you meet off Tinder or in the pub etc.
This sums it up really.

Basically something feels a little off about bringing strangers into your children's home (regardless of whether the kids are there).
However ,at the end of the day, it's your house - do as you please.

Oh, you can go back to loveless sex after denying her a spine and backbone to be honest with?

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