AIBU Seriously?!

[Couch2Potato]

We're watching a movie, and my phone buzzes.
OH: "Who's that?"
Me: "Nobody - TikTok"
OH: "No, it was Whatsapp".
Me: "I don't have a notification from WA"
OH: "It was from Charlotte.."
Me: "Look scrolls through phone to show him, I don't have one."
OH: "I just saw it…"
Me: ".…"
OH: "Why are you being so defensive?"
Me: ".…"

We picked a film, that OH hadn't seen but I had.
After it had finished, I asked OHto put the TV on, as it was still sitting on Chomecast Homepage.
We were chatting for a little bit about my hair and I'm ask if we can put something on (as he'd put the footy on).
OH: "We just watched something you wanted to watch" …
End up getting into a row, so I saw I'm going to watch TV upstairs.
When I come out the loo upstairs, he's in bed.
Me: "are you watching TV up here?"
OH: "no"
Me: "ok.. I'm going to go downstairs"
OH: "don't you even want to be near me?"
Me: "Can't you accept my boundaries?"
OH: "So is that a no?"
Me: "No, I want to but I want some space."
OH: "So, you don't want to be around me… right now?"
Me: "No."

AYBU about what ?

Sounds pretty snippy and dysfunctional.

Not sure what's going on but it doesn't sound fun for either of you . Good luck getting it sorted

@BackforGood

AYBU about what ?

About wanting space away from this argument hahaha

What??

He's trying to pick a fight. Seems like any subject will serve his purpose.

I would not be surprised if an accusation of you losing interest in him because you are cheating is in your near future.

Take care.

The best thing to do is go and have your space and ignore him

Well, that's a couple of minutes I won't get back.

It just sounds like a petty argument to me. You don’t seem to get on very well.

Turn your phone off if you are watching a film together, unless you are on call for some kind of emergency.

That’s about the only constructive thing I can add to your post.

And, once again, as I lie here on my sofa watching the exact film I want to watch, stuffing crisps in my mouth, not really caring if they don't quite make it to my mouth, for I'm also a bit drunk...once again, I'm reminded how blooming blissful it is to be single.

What is the point of bickering like that all the time?

What?

He sounds painful.

Ring your mum or dad , tell them you're ready to be picked up & ignore him at school on Monday

Sounds like you both need a bit of space. Haha. No judgment. I blew up at OH today because he ate the last of the cheese.

@arethereanyleftatall

And, once again, as I lie here on my sofa watching the exact film I want to watch, stuffing crisps in my mouth, not really caring if they don't quite make it to my mouth, for I'm also a bit drunk...once again, I'm reminded how blooming blissful it is to be single.

What is the point of bickering like that all the time?

That sounds absolutely amazing.

He’s picking a fight. Boring bastard. Go downstairs and avoid.

I don't know what to do 😔
I don't think it's unreasonable for wanting space from an argument. Why is he making it out that I don't want to be around him ever? I'm so exhausted by bickering.

I couldn’t be arsed

@Moonshine11

I couldn’t be arsed

What would you do?

I know I need to go and move on. But how do you, when nothing major blows up? Its just small digging here and there.

You can leave a relationship if you want to op, you don't need a reason.

But did Charlotte WhatsApp you? Why does he think she did if she didn’t? I MUST KNOW!!!

Because you've had enough and he's feeling insecure so being extra needy and exhausting which makes you pull away more. Can you get away for a few nights? Although knowing me I'd have told him to fuck off and leave me alone.

Seen your update. You don't need a reason. You can leave for no reason. That's your choice and your life.

@StillCoughingandLaughing

But did Charlotte WhatsApp you? Why does he think she did if she didn’t? I MUST KNOW!!!

😂😂😂 Nope! Though I did have a message from my 90 year old Grandmother 10 mins later. He then ask got funny why I told him I had got a text from my Grandmother 😂