Am I being totally unreasonable about the way DH is behaing towards me...................

[mymatemarmite]

I have name changed recently, partly out of embarrassment and partly out of fun.

I have had a problem with my bladder since June after a simple op etc. At first I needed a catheter full time, gradually it became occasionally, where is now I am!

I leak (wet myself most days - if I am lucky twice if unlucky as much as 7 times a day!

I have always been clear at night! Until these last couple of weeks when I have wet the bed 3 times. Last night was the 1st time I admitted that this had happened to my DH(we have been married for nearly 16 yrs). Part of me wants to scream"whats your problem!" He was very ignorant this morning- he just grunted at me!

But then part of me all ready knows that he cant cope with illness or anything else!

He looked at me this morning as if I were really dirty! It really upset me big time!
He didn't once say to me - Are you OK

He just expected that the bed be readily made for him this evening ( although I had been at work all day too, and done dinner and dance and whilst he was at swimming with DD3 I still managed to bathe DD2 and hair wash and cook a meal for both of us etc.

Sorry rant over!

mmm, when you have accidents at night, do you have to wake him to change the sheets?

If so, maybe he finds the disruptive nights a bit too much?

I can't think of anything else to say....

I think he needs a kick up the arse though & he needs to see that it's not a walk in the park for you I'm guessing it's no fun wearing nappies in the daytime, I know I get pissed off with pads during my period, can't imagine having to wear nappies all the time.

((((((hugs for you))))))

MMM this whole situation sounds awful for you, my heart goes out to you and I hope things get better both for you in terms of interventions working and in your relationship with DP.