Not sure if this really is an AIBU or me just needing somewhere to vent... but here goes my MIL is just so horrible - cold, unemotional, mean and is forever giving you those non compliment "compliments" and I've had enough of her she sleeps in most days until 1/2 in the afternoon, she does absolutely nothing apart from sit of you tube watching a load of utter crap, smoke and gets waited on hand and foot she doesn't leave the house and never lifts a finger because she is utterly lazy. I suppose for a while I did tolerate her but our views are so different on everything she gets her information from you tube and doesn't believe in covid, has very different views on government, nhs and well basically everything to the majority of people. But since having my DS things have just got really bad, she couldn't understand why we wouldn't let her hold him during the pandemic despite explaining to her the implications the response was .. well it's just like the flu and she couldn't get her head around how non existent DS immune system was, she doesn't agree with injections and tried to scare monger me. Sorry I got on a rant roll but basically we went to see her over the weekend, arrived at 1.30 DS of 6 months was due a feed and started getting cranky, she was nowhere to be seen, still in bed apparently was finishing her cup of tea and will be down. 2.00 came no sign of her.. 2.30 and she comes down walks past the room we are in, doesn't acknowledge our existence and sits in another room with a cup of tea .. watching you tube 3.00 comes and DS really cranky so I take him home for a nap .. fuming so I just left with him and left my OH there. I'm just so mad at how she never ceases to amaze me with how rude and not nice she is! I really want to never go and see her again but I know thats extreme I'm just so mad at her!