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It does generally take hours to cook, BUT you don’t have to be watching and stirring all of the time. We v occasionally do a slow roast pork shoulder which goes in the oven the day before and is then largely ignored until it comes out of the oven half an hour before we eat. Veg can be roasted if you like, frozen peas in the microwave. Basically you can put as much or as little effort into it as you feel like on the day. It doesn’t have to be the full works every single time.
If I’m going the whole hog, I admit it’s a bit of a military operation in terms of timing. I work out when everything needs to go on an off and set timers. A lot of it can be prepared in advance though and I’d rather peel a few potatoes and carrots than chop, mince, and measure loads of stuff. I pour a glass of wine, turn on some music and potter ....
Hell, if you want to, you can find most of the accompaniments already prepared in the supermarkets these days. That’s what my elderly mum does!
It’s certainly not something people should feel they have to do (especially if you don’t like it - why would you bother!), but for us it sort of marks a special day of the week, we often have friends round (pre-covid) and have a long leisurely convivial meal.
We also like to,have leftovers!
(The washing up UP is a bastard though, but for us it’s worth it!)