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Josh Duggar arrested again for having indecent images of children. AIBU in wondering how the hell a man with his history was allowed to remain in the home with his babies?

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MobyDicksTinyCanoe · 30/04/2021 21:01

For anyone who doesn't know who he is Google is up there ^

I don't even watch the programme but I've been following his case (( well cases)) and I'm astounded by the fact that a man's right to have access to his children seems to come above a child's right to be kept safe from harm. Is this the norm in the states whereby someone with a history like his can remain in the home? 🤔

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MrsGulDukat · 01/05/2021 20:53

@YesIDoLoveCrisps

The whole family bleat on about how nasty trans people are and how they'll molest your kids.

But when golden boy Joshy does it, it's a mistake and they'll pray it away.

YesIDoLoveCrisps · 01/05/2021 21:05

Even if it’s their own daughters . . . It’s just vile

Tinselandlights · 01/05/2021 21:10

@sunflowersandbuttercups I don't know that Josh has prior convictions, the sex worker who accused him of sexual assault didn't go ahead with the charges.

His computer at the used car garage was removed in 2019 and these charges relate to that.

He was never convicted of molesting the girls because the statute of limitation had passed as JB and M covered it up and tried to solve it with 'Christian' methods rather than the law.

Maerchentante · 01/05/2021 22:28

Call my cynic, but I firmly believe that the recent "gender reveal" was orchestrated by JB to show what a "great dad and family man", all to paint the golden boy a way more favourable light.

tedsletterofthelaw · 01/05/2021 22:42

Ugh. Off topic but the article linked up thread sates 'child pornography' I wish people, especially the media (who should know better) would stop using that erroneous and gross phrase.

eatsleepread · 01/05/2021 22:50

Stupid bitch of a wife.
And he's a total lowlife.

Tinselandlights · 01/05/2021 22:53

Totally agree @tedsletterofthelaw

gumball37 · 01/05/2021 23:16

Generally, if you haven't abused one of your own children then you are not kept from them. Which is fucking stupid, but there it is.

YesIDoLoveCrisps · 01/05/2021 23:20

Yes it’s imagines of child sexual assault. NOT child pornography.

speakout · 02/05/2021 06:42

Ugh. Off topic but the article linked up thread sates 'child pornography' I wish people, especially the media (who should know better) would stop using that erroneous and gross phrase.

I agree.

I also hate the phrase " child prositute".

knittingaddict · 02/05/2021 08:08

I agree with others op, what makes you think it's different in the UK. I have watched my relative have to hand her children over to an abusive man for contact, despite family court and the case going to the cps. Her friend has to do the same with clear evidence of sexual abuse.

Even with more acts of domestic abuse being made illegal, I have no idea what a man has to do to not to have contact with his children positively encouraged

MrsGulDukat · 05/05/2021 22:38

It's the bond hearing today and details are coming out.

Apparently, he had nearly 70 images and 1 video containing children between 5 and 10.

He was seen laughing and smirking as the information was coming out.

Jill Duggar and Cousin Amy are in attendence. Possibly John David and Lauren (Josiah's wife) are too.

HerRoyalRisesAgain · 05/05/2021 22:58

Hes a sick bastard. He really is.

Candleabra · 05/05/2021 23:02

Just read the news update. Words fail me.

DHS agent says 'it was in top five of the worst of the worst that I've ever had to examine'

MrsGulDukat · 05/05/2021 23:10

I've been reading updates on Reddit.

I should have headed the trigger warnings.

Hope the piece of shit rots.

ImJustNotSure · 05/05/2021 23:40

@MrsGulDukat

Oh my good god.

Ages between 5-10 are his kids ages. Let alone nieces and nephews.

He’s going to die in jail.

MrsGulDukat · 05/05/2021 23:42

His sisters were also in that age range when he molested them.

Carbara · 05/05/2021 23:48

ImJust hopefully it dies in jail, but I have zero faith in the ‘justice’ system, in any country, maybe it’s own kids will be removed from the paedo enablers they’re sadly surrounded by. Hopefully.

Postapocalypticcowgirl · 05/05/2021 23:50

Anna is clearly a victim of emotional and financial abuse, and probably physical and sexual abuse too.

It's very possible she's been persuaded that if she left, josh would go for and maybe get full custody or at least unsupervised access. She may well feel staying is the only way to protect her kids.

She needs help and support, not criticism.

sadpapercourtesan · 06/05/2021 00:01

I agree about Anna, I feel terrible for her. Also the sisters he molested, who will be going through unimaginable turmoil right now. I know they're obnoxious, self-righteous right-wing fruit loops and I would dislike them intensely on a personal level, but nobody deserves to be abused, victimised, blamed and exploited for money the way they have been.

Anna is pregnant, with six young kids and no education or employment background - she's incredibly vulnerable. I worry that Jim Bob will absorb her into his "headship" and dominate her and the kids permanently now, while blaming her for not keeping a handle on Josh. What a colossal mess. Sad

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MrsGulDukat · 06/05/2021 00:04

For fuck's sake.

The stupid judge released the sick fuck on bond.

Where is he going?

To friends of his parents who own guns and have children going into the property for piano lessons.

Carbara · 06/05/2021 00:27

I am proud to NEVER support a paedo enabler. In person, or online. Something so basic shouldn’t even need to be stated. The enabler has very wealthy relatives, several of whom have cut ties with the cult, so nope, the enabler is not ‘helpless’ at all.

Carbara · 06/05/2021 00:30

Also, the paedo supporter knew her disgusting husband was a sex offender years ago, when he freely admitted it, and bred with him, and knew about his latest sex offences since two years ago, and continued to breed more infants with him. There’s no justifying that, in any way.

MobyDicksTinyCanoe · 06/05/2021 00:30

He got out? No fucking way???!!😳

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