I love my husband, I’ve never doubted I’m in love with him and we have a great relationship (don’t fight much, best friends, good sex life, make eachother laugh, want to grow old together) but we are fairly low key about it. We don’t do public displays of affection or write deep declarations of love in birthday cards/Facebook statuses etc. A lot of my friends are similar with their partners-very happy together but if you spend time with them they just seem like 2 friends together mostly.
Then there is the occasional couple that are so obviously in love you can see it when you spend time with them-they can’t keep their hands off each other even after years, you can tell by the way they look at each other or they write gushing Facebook posts, refer to eachother as soulmates etc.
Do you think that this is just a personality thing (some people are more expressive than others) or do you think these couples have found a connection/deeper love than average, standard but still in love couples. And the rest of us don’t know what we’re missing because the love we have is still amazing and we’ve never experienced this “higher” level?
I ran into an old friend recently with her “new” husband of 6 years and I was quite surprised by the chemistry between them/the obvious love was like a cheesy movie. Apparently it was love at first sight when they met too. I looked up this friend on Facebook and her profile was full of gushing messages and photos of her husband.
When I knew her years ago she was married (and I knew her with her university boyfriend before that) and she was always quite a private,low key person not the type to be dramatic/romantic and never did public displays of affection with her partner.
In case this sounds negative I don’t think it’s a bad thing at all, it’s lovely to see people in love.
Does anyone else see couples that seem to be more crazily in love than other (happy, also in love) couples? Do you think these people are just very lucky and actually are more in love or are they just more public/expressive about their love and their feelings for eachother are the same as couples that are more quiet/less romantic with eachother but still happy?
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LeopardSheet · 20/04/2021 22:06
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