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to retrain at 44 years old.

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wannabeeot · 17/04/2021 08:16

I'm 44 and was made redundant in January; I've wanted a career change for some time. I studied for a second degree with the OU in Health and Social Care.

I have applied to do a Masters in Occupational Therapy, an area I've been interested in for some time. I did well in the interview but the course was oversubscribed so I am on a waiting list. I am now doing a part-time job as a support worker working with people with learning disabilities. While it is not an OT role I think there are lots of transferable skills between the two i.e patience, empathy, good listening, and problems solving skills. It has also been really eye-opening working with vulnerable people and hearing the stories of some of the people that we work with. Also, many of them have had input from OTs to help them navigate their lives.

It is unlikely a place will come up for September but I intend to get my application in as soon as the course is launched to hopefully secure a place for 2022. However, this will mean I was been 46 when I start (eek). I don't feel this age or look it and I'm reasonably physically fit.

So my AIBU is, am I unreasonable to ask for people's experiences of a career change later in life? Am I delusional?

Also, if there are any OTs out there I would love some advice on things I can do to prepare for a career in OT. If I have to wait until September 2022 I want to make sure my time is utilized as effectively as possible, I feel like I am stuck in limbo at the moment.

OP posts:
HikeForward · 19/04/2021 21:33

You sound pretty negative and as people have explained that is not the perception everywhere. It is not really helpful to the OP or anyone else. It sounds as if the OT team is chronically understaffed but perhaps that is a reflection of the service you work in not valuing OT or the people in the service not valuing OT? I don’t think I would want to work with you with your attitude

I agree it’s not the perception everywhere, and I haven’t said it’s universal, merely shared my experiences and those of my OT friends.

I don’t mean to sound negative about the profession in general. Merely realistic. Entering any profession with rose tinted glasses is a risk.

It’s possible the OP could have 4 wonderful placements then a great job or rotation and love every aspect of OT. But also possible she may encounter an MDT who are less enthusiastic about the OT role. Understanding why and being prepared to facilitate change are qualities of any good clinician.

If the MDT and the service users don’t value a particular OT service, something isn’t right... is it fair to automatically blame that on the MDT? You get competent OTs and incompetent ones, just like any other job. Some people choose OT thinking it’s an easy job, some have little compassion, some can’t access the supervision and support they need to progress. Other OTs are deeply committed and passionate about helping people and improving services.

Clinicians from all disciplines need to work together. OT as a profession has suffered a chronic identity crisis for decades (according to my OT friends this is covered in training), but doesn’t seem to help itself by using mysterious jargon and over complicating basic concepts.

I disagree it’s unhelpful to the OP (or anyone else thinking of studying OT) to point out the negatives as well as the positives, looking back at the history of the profession and how it can be perceived today.

Every profession (mine included) has its challenges, it’s downsides, and understanding them is the only way things ever change for the better.

Blaming the MDT for not ‘valuing’ the OT is no more helpful than an OT using OT-specific jargon to other disciplines. It just causes confusion and creates a culture of mistrust.

Even my OT friends laugh at some of the OT jargon and say it dates back to when OT wasn’t perceived to be a true science, and the profession over-compensated (apparently they even teach about this paradigm shift on the Masters course nowadays).

As I said upthread, I’m not talking about a single MDT or single OT team. I’ve worked in many different hospitals and trusts over the years (including a number of locum jobs). My experiences don’t reflect a single MDT but closer to 10 different MDTs, each with OTs. Still that’s a drop in the ocean considering how many hospitals and community centres we have. But I find it significant my OT friends have faced similar misconceptions and negativity about the OT profession, even the one who made it to OT management.

I’m not trying to put anyone off being an OT, and as I said earlier I’ve met plenty of OTs who love their jobs. I’m just advising you research the profession very thoroughly before committing to years of expensive study. And by research I mean get as much hands on experience as you can, ideally working with OTs and activity workers in a range of settings, so you know it’s the right career for you.

Ritasueandbobtoo9 · 19/04/2021 21:47

Hikeforward What is your profession / job out of interest?

HikeForward · 20/04/2021 05:02

Hikeforward What is your profession / job out of interest?

It’s a medical/healthcare one but I’d rather not specify my exact profession here as it’s quite outing. Sorry didn’t mean that to sound rude, coming off a looong night shift! 🦉

OldWivesTale · 20/04/2021 05:39

Of course it's do-able! Lots of people retrain at this age; nobody has jobs for life anymore and you have lots of transferable skills. I retrained as a teacher when I was 47. There were lots of others my age or older on the course. Older people have a lot of life experience to bring to a job- don't underestimate that.

Tobebythesea · 20/04/2021 06:13

I’m first year BSc OT and absolutely love it. I’ll qualify in my 40s and so will lots on my course. A word of warning - the Masters is very full on. Most people on my course applied for both undergraduate and masters.

I also work as an OT Assistant with NHSP. That’s definitely worth looking into. Due to Covid, a lot of places cannot give work experience.

Hairyfairy01 · 20/04/2021 06:29

Tobebythesea can I ask hour many hours you work as an OT assistant? I start a full time undergrad course in sept and also currently work as an OT assistant. I would love to keep some of my hours if I can, but equally recognise it is a full time course and that has to be my priority. However it's only 3 days actually in Uni, the rest is reading / self directed study.

SavingsQuestions · 20/04/2021 07:11

This would be my dream! I'm 42 and would love to be an OT. I didn't know what they did in my 20s. Locally it's only the bsc course and I can't commit to 3 yrs fulltime (or afford to) as one of my children has some additional needs.

Tobebythesea · 20/04/2021 09:20

@Hairyfairy01

I’m part time BSc so I’m at uni 2 days and work 2 days. I think you might struggle if you’re full time. Enjoy the course - I absolutely love it!

Tobebythesea · 20/04/2021 09:22

@SavingsQuestions

Look into the Learning Support Fund. It basically means half price tuition fees and some help towards childcare.

SavingsQuestions · 20/04/2021 17:52

Ah that is interesting

I already have undsrgrad degrees so it would seem a shame to do another one rather than a conversion.

It also looks like 3 year full time. I dont think at 42 I could do 6 years part time (and it is only full time).

I really wish I'd trained pre kids!

Hairyfairy01 · 20/04/2021 18:13

[quote Tobebythesea]@Hairyfairy01

I’m part time BSc so I’m at uni 2 days and work 2 days. I think you might struggle if you’re full time. Enjoy the course - I absolutely love it![/quote]
Thank you. Yes, I think you are probably right. I need to focus on the course. I'm down to work on bank anyway, so can pick up hours there as and when. Just seems scary giving up my contracted job completely! Great to hear that you are enjoying the course.

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