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Am I lazy? Aibu ?

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hotncolds · 07/04/2021 13:42

I do my friend favours all the time,yet when I need a favour she is Mia.
I will pick her things up from supermarket and drop them off at her house.
She lives 5 mins walk away from mine so it's no trouble really,but she never thinks about saying il come and collect them.

It's her cousins birthday and a few weeks ago I mentioned I had a unused soap and glory gift set that I didn't want.
She asked if she could have it and I said of course.
I said pop round anytime you want.
She was meant to come yesterday (she didn't )
Then she said "will you be passing mine tomorrow,can you drop that set in?"
I said no I wouldn't be I didn't think as I was busy today.
I've just been food shopping and because I'm without a car at the min I have to get the train to the supermarket and obviously carry the heavy bags back.

She's just text "can you drop that set around please today"
I replied "hi I've just got home,manic today,I won't be near your house today,feel free to collect when you can"

She replied "how lazy,it's literally 5 mins round the corner,I'm not even dressed yet"

I'm flabbergasted
Aibu am I ?

OP posts:
BronwenFrideswide · 07/04/2021 22:44

@hotncolds

I said to her pretty much that *@Skysblue* And her response was

"Are you really saying this,I ask for one favour off a friend because I'm not feeling well and this is what I get in return ..wow thanks"

Ah playing the I don't feel well sympathy angle, don't fall for it hotncolds, don't allow yourself to be guilt tripped by her, you've been used and taken advantage of by her, her idea of friendship is a one way street with you doing all the running, that's not a friendship. Just drop and block.
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