I totally understand what you mean, however we have an SUV because we needed to fit 3 car seats in the back and the Audi Q7 has isofix in all seats (except driver’s seat obviously) and an excellent safety record. We wanted 7 seats to be able to bring MIL with us, or friends for the kids, without needing to bring another car.
We also live at the bottom of an incredibly steep hill (at the edge of a small town, not in a city). Our old car couldn’t manage it in the ice or snow so we thought a 4 wheel drive rather than a people carrier would be worth the investment.
And, on top of that, my DH does love cars. Personally I just want to get safely from A to B.
A large SUV is not much different in size to a large people carrier. Car seats are so bulky nowadays (rightly so as they are so much safer), but the smaller cars my parents had when I was a kid just wouldn’t work space-wise for the same size family today.
Anyway, just to say there are all sorts of reasons people purchase their car, it’s not always just about status.