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To want to punch this lady in the face

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spidermomma · 05/04/2021 19:10

Breif background-
2 possibly 3 of my baby's have a terminal illness that means they will eventually loose the ability to do everything....
my oldest (4) has lost a lot of his walking so sometimes school will now ring and say to bring his big buggy if he's having a bad day for me to walk home with as we walk.... we've only just recently got this about a month ago now
It's brilliant but we do try to avoid using it as keeping him walking as much as I can is best for him & he uses aids etc to stay safe but very very independent like his friends

So on our FIRST ever walk home with his buggy from school about 2 weeks ago with the baby on the back in his buggy board loving life pretending to drive, everyone commented how brilliant it was , his little best friend even came over and said "oh don't you look so comfy in your chair" their only 4/5 she melted my heart saying this, genuinely love how oblivious children are to differences and see people for people ❤️
But
Then one lady just bluntly and rudely shouted across a road to me "well what's wrong with him then"
Well 1- who the helll are you ????
2 why the f* would I tell a stranger my business and
3- WHO ON EARTH WOULD SAY THIS TO A MOTHER ABOUT A CHILD????

Needless to say, she's lucky I had 3 kids with me and I think she got that from the look on my face but wow I'm still so annoyed ????

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darklady64 · 05/04/2021 23:50

Wow! What a bitch! I'm so sorry you had to deal with that. Try and focus on the positive reactions you had and forget this ignorant prat - but it is hard to let it go, I know. What an ignorant sack of shit.

You, on the other hand, sound lovely. She will never be a tenth of the person you are and one day, if she carries on like that, she will get punched in the face

ameliajanes · 06/04/2021 00:00

@AIMD

Urgh. That’s why the c word was invented no?
She lacks the warmth and the depth.
spidermomma · 06/04/2021 08:34

@SneezyGonzalez it's a proper disability buggy

But thank you all for your kind words means a lot ❤️
Just take it with a Pinch of salt from now on as it won't be the last time I suppose! But in future I hope I have someone with me so I can give them what for! Haha
Xx

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