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To think this house will be a HMO?

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LetSophieGo · 02/04/2021 17:23

A single, male relative of mine owns his own home in an area that used to be quite ok but has become fairly depressed.

About 6 years ago his next door neighbour (old lady) passed away and the house was sold to a landlord. He soon let it as a HMO. It has 3 bedrooms and on average about 8 people were living in it - all young men in their twenties (not students). Fast forward many years of hell for my relative, with constant issues including 24-7 noise, nowhere to park, overflowing rubbish, rats, etc.

Last year just after lockdown the landlord sold up. He told my relative it hadn't been licensed and as the tenants had wrecked the place he'd had enough and was selling up. So they all moved out and it went on the market.

Snapped up a few months later by a wealthy Chinese couple who said they had bought 20 properties in the area (!!!). They put a key-safe next to the front door, decorated it, very basic, then disappeared. The property still has a small fire extinguisher on wall and huge locks on all internal doors.

One month ago a lovely guy appeared at the door, told my relative he and his family were moving in soon. Relative was relieved and was happy to know the house was going to a family, etc.

However, no sign of this family since.
In the past 3 days, several young men have appeared outside and gone into the house via the key-safe, talking loudly on phone and walking up and down smoking for an hour (exact same type of guys who lived there when it was a HMO). None of them are related and have all turned up separately, as if they are checking out the house.

I told relative it looks like the 'family guy' fell through and the owners are now reverting it back to a HMO. My relative kind of doesn't want to accept that and is hoping the family move in after all, but I personally doubt it, because if it was already contracted to the family guy, I can't see why these random young men keep turning up there.

AIBU to suspect the HMO thing is starting up again? If I were relative I would just drop it as a lost cause and look for somewhere new. It caused him so much stress for so many years it was agonising to watch.

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LetSophieGo · 03/04/2021 20:54

Sorry, the couple who bought the house were Chinese, they also fitted the key safe a few months ago. Not seen them since. Had originally thought maybe it was going to be a student house.

A few weeks ago a Spanish family viewed it (only saw the husband) and said they had been 'given' the house and were moving in. Seemed lovely.

Since then, seen none of these people return.

Before and after the Spanish family, there has been a regular presence of young European lads going in for a few minutes. My puzzlement is about how safe it is to let lots of people access a key safe who aren't staying in it, and if it is to be a HMO for the lads, the appearance of the Spanish family in the middle was confusing.

Also, I mention culture simply to to make a distinction between them as different groups who all seem oddly unconnected.

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Bythemillpond · 03/04/2021 21:49

Could it be an Airbnb? I have only ever seen the keys safes on holiday lets

SprungisSpringYaY · 03/04/2021 22:02

Op I hugely sympathise, my life was made utter hell by an un regulated hmo.

Your relative has to make fuss with council.

LetSophieGo · 04/04/2021 00:03

@SprungisSpringYaY

Op I hugely sympathise, my life was made utter hell by an un regulated hmo.

Your relative has to make fuss with council.

He will be moving fairly soon, so decided to just keep his head down and try to reduce stress. Sometimes, when something has become so perpetual and repetitive, you just have to get out instead of fighting. The entire area has gone to hell. He did all of the fighting years ago and it made him ill. He was even out of work for a time due to what it did to his health. Never again, if I can help it.
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