I've posted about DH before, so I'd be very interested in hearing from those posters with experience of ADHD, but also anyone with experience of male partners!
DH was outside staining the shed and I handed him his dinner as he had asked to have it out there. He took it from me. I went back inside and started sorting out the school uniforms for tomorrow.
DH came stomping in up the stairs and raised his voice at me, declaring "I'm not bloody hungry anymore!!!" I was a bit taken aback and asked what was wrong with the food. He said "I don't know! Could be loads! I won't ever know, because I sat in it and now I can't eat it!" In a very accusatory tone! I told him that's unfortunate but it's not my fault. He responded furiously that I ought not to have handed it to him when he was so busy! I pointed out to him that at the point I handed it to him, he was drinking a coffee and catching up on Facebook and that I still failed to see how it was my fault and why he thought he could come in and blame me for his mistake. He then ranted that he has no clean trousers for work. I wordlessly handed him a clean stack of about six pairs. He scowled and stomped off to collect some tools from BIL and has just texted me saying "Is my staining brush clean or has it been left in the sink and been ruined?" He's been gone ten minutes and mentioned precisely fuck all about a brush. And I'm not his personal brush cleaner!!
Is he just embarrassed and cross about ruining his dinner and should I roll my eyes and ignore it or is he being a twat who ought to apologise unreservedly?