Mine are 18, 11 and 9 actually this list is interesting because mine all have some additional needs and I have tried hard to explain what they struggle with but it's hard to find a frame of reference.
Get a glass of water - yes although it's easier for them to fill their water bottles and the wider plastic cups because they drip it, they are also awesome at leaving the tap on.
Make a glass of cordial/squash - yes but I would probably have to mop up a spill at least 50% of the time. They can also pour juice but same problems.
Place baking potatoes in (cold) oven - no I guarantee they would forget to prick them with a fork or set the oven wrong or forget to turn it on, but the oldest can cook an oven pizza if I set a timer for him.
Turn on oven or Take hot potatoes out of oven - nope they don't remember things are hot and will burn.
Microwave some porridge - nope experience says they would let it boil over and since they don't actually like porridge I haven't tried to teach them. Although I do have some awesome large microwave containers with handles and lids that help with this if the oldest wants to heat up a tin of soup. Although it took a long time to teach him.
Wash a few dishes, Dry a few dishes, Put away a few dishes - They can wash and dry dishes, although the floor needs mopping afterwards. They can't put them away actually the oldest struggles to get a plate out of the cupboard he forgets he can't just pull one from the bottom many broken things mean we have a lot of plastic stored in the low cupboards to avoid this.
Run themselves a bath, Wash themselves in bath, Wash their hair- short, Wash their hair-long - The oldest can run a bath and use the shower, although he doesn't remember to have one unless you are pretty blunt usually "you need a bath/shower" is required. We run the bath for the younger two because they are easily distracted and have a tendency to wander off, so it avoids a flooded bathroom again. They can use the shower by themselves although we often have to send them back to actually stand under the shower not just in the bath next to it and once a week we wash their hair properly his is short, her's is long. Along the same lines of personal care they need reminders to change clothes, use deodorant. They have to be supervised to brush teeth and they both still need help with other personal care. His hair is short and currently blond he deals with it himself. Hers is long and currently purple (reward for homeschooling) she is incapable of brushing her hair and frequently screams and tries to bite us when we do.
Dress themselves in weather-appropriate clothes Nope. The oldest one doesn't feel heat properly. He has nearly passed out because he insisted on a leather jacket and a hoodie during a heatwave and went out in the snow in a t-shirt and shorts. I can't really do much about it except try to bargain with him. He still chews holes in his clothes too. He has lots of sensory rules about his clothes. The younger two can be steered towards mostly appropriate clothes although they prefer long sleeved cotton tops when it is hot and often struggle with coats and shoes. All of them struggle with buttons so they have lots of easy to wear clothes. The middle one has a tie for school and his dad ties it every morning.
Put dirty clothes in the wash, Put a load in the washer, Start the washer - They can't really manage to put their laundry in the laundry baskets when they are done with them. They can retrieve certain items and bring them to me. They understand how to load the machine, how to add the washing powder and how to set it and turn it on but they get lost during the process if we don't supervise and remind. They struggle to judge when it's full or they turn it on empty or without washing powder. It beeps when it is done but they don't remember to remove it and put it in the dryer.
Make their bed each morning - They can, but they don't and honestly since 2/3 of them still have incontinence issues it's easier for me if they don't.
Change their bedding Apparently they all can although they usually the previous post applies so they don't have to very often, but when they do the youngest likes to use her charms to make her brothers do it for her. The middle one actually likes putting duvet covers on so he often volunteers.
Tie their laces - The oldest can't the younger two can but I often buy laceless shoes or do it because it's easier unless you have nowhere to be in a hurry.
Feed a pet - we don't have one so I have no idea.
Make a sandwich, Make toast in a toaster - they can all make a sandwich or wrap, the boys can make toast, crumpets and the oldest can cut bagels mostly straight but they struggle to butter it, the little one doesn't like toast so she doesn't bother.
Make toast in a grill - No but I haven't ever done it either they make cheese on toast in the microwave because they like it like that.
Cross a minor road, Cross a major road - Depends on the road, the oldest basically goes where he likes but worries me sick because he often forgets road safety. I did spend a long time reinforcing safe places to cross. The middle one walks himself to and from school because it is a learned route and while there are roads he is good at crossing them. Although on other routes he is less reliable. The youngest is utterly unpredictable some days she is great some days she is a menace to herself and others. She doesn't go anywhere by herself right now.
Go to a shop alone for one item eg bread with no road to cross - The oldest can if it's an item he understands and we buy regularly, he usually needs a reminder of what he is getting by text if he has to choose an alternative item it all falls apart. He is not good with money, but he can use a debit card and self service tills make him happy. The younger two have never been to a shop by themselves, although I give them lots of opportunities to choose things and pay when we go shopping, they are quite good with money and change.
Help meal plan for a week, Help shop for a week They always help shop, but they struggle to even decide what they want for lunch the following day from a limited list of options. They have definite opinions about food, but there is a lot of bargaining, compromise and sometimes bribery to make mealtimes peaceful. If we remember to use the right plates, cut the veg the right way and remember who likes what it's not too bad. They do like to help if they are supervised they can peel vegetables but not chop them, they can grate cheese although we have to cut it first and leave more than we need because they leave quite a large chunk on purpose so they can eat it. They can help weigh out ingredients.
Buy ice cream from known ice cream van - They are not interested in the ice cream van since they begged for one last summer and he put sauce on it without asking, they were not happy so buying icecream for the freezer is safer.
Pack own sports kit/bag, Unpack sports kit for wash not an issue because due to Covid they have to go to school in their p.e kit and I have to wash it when they come home ready for the next day.
Set alarm clock and get up for school - The boys can but usually get up without them. She probably knows how but she needs considerably more persuasion to leave her bed. Mornings are definitely not her favourite time of day.
Mow a lawn - They boys like mowing the lawn with their dad they also both volunteer to mow the lawn at the Scout hut. She is terrified of the sound of the mower so she hides under the bed when they do it.
Fill a bird feeder - They probably could although they would be very likely to feed the grass more than the bird feeder. Anything that involves pouring is challenging they would also struggle to move it from the packet to the feeder using a spoon or scoop.
Put own folded clothes in their drawer, Fold own clothes, Hang uniforms for school Sorry I am almost crying laughing at that idea, they are perfectly capable of knowing where their clothes go, putting items I have folded into the right drawers, hanging up their uniform and bags and putting their shoes away but it's incredibly unlikely. we have daily battles regarding socks, shoes, bags, coats, ties and uniform. I spend a small fortune replacing hats, gloves, socks and now facemasks because they lose everything. So I cheated, I set up routines on the Echo Dot reminding them what they need to do in the morning and afternoon. So she nags them about hanging up stuff, reminds them lunchboxes go in the kitchen and asks them if they have homework or letters/messages they need to give me. We are all really struggling to get back into routines after lockdown.