have you ever pushed over your teen dc?

[zeitgeista]

during an argument?

Genuinely no, I have never pushed my teenager over. I don't think anyone has pushed me over in anger since I was about 8.

You need to give more details to get anything out of this. Who are you talking about? What post?

Look Op spit it out Well quite. No one can comment really with so little to go on

But no, I haven’t pushed my teenager over.

Has your dp pushed your teenager over, OP?

No, it isn’t normal if that’s what you’re wondering.

I think op is the teen. Hence asking are they safe.

I’ve never had a physical fight with anyone in my family since about 1977 when my younger brother grew bigger than me

my mum and i had an argument earlier today, i can't go into too much detail but she pushed me harshly out of the way, with no provocation by me. she's now telling me this never happened, that i'm a liar, that i always make my own stories up etc.

No but I’ve slapped them a few times

i assume you had good reason to though?

So did she push you out of the way or push you over? While neither is ok there is a difference.
If you want opinions and advice you need to give some context to your problem.

sorry, to me they are the same thing. she pushed me very harshly backwards into something.

Sorry to hear that, op. It's never ok to use physical aggression with anyone, let alone your children. That's disgusting behaviour from your mum.
Is this the first time your mum has laid her hands on you?

How old are you?
This is to help us to help you. There is a world of difference between a 14 yo and a 19yo and the advice we might give.

Just because she denies it now doesn't mean your version of events isn't true. Did I ever push my own teens over? No, never. Was I pushed over as a teen by mum? Yes, though like your mum, mine denies my version of events too.

And is your baby safe?

Is this the first time she has done this?

Would you be eligible for your own place through the council? You say you have a baby so I assume you're living with your mum? As already pointed out, you need to explain your situation, your relationship with your mum and your living arrangements so that posters can advise.

Oh OP, that is not OK at all Was this the first time it’s happened?

i feel as though i can't trust my own memory of what happened anymore because everytime we have even a minor disagreement, she tells me that it didn't happen like how i said it happened, on many occasions she has screamed in my face that i'm a fucking liar, she shouts at my dad if he doesn't back her up and i am an only child so i have no one at home who would have witnessed it to back me up, so i sometimes question whether what i think has happened, actually happened.

yes my baby is 100% safe, as am i.

Ok, are you going to school or college at the moment? Can you speak to your tutor? This sounds like a safeguarding issue.
If you aren't at school / college can you contact your heath visitor some time?
What do you want to happen?
Do you want to live separately from her?

This changing of history is called gaslighting. Look it up. It is done by abusive people.