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Cuppa tea

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idontlikealdi · 16/03/2021 21:51

Does this rub anyone else up the wrong way? I don't drink tea but I'll have 'a coffee' or 'a cup of coffee'.

Having a 'cuppa' just annoys me. Mainly from MIL who also says she has 'to go a wee'.

It's causing friction because I correct the kids, would never correct mil but obviously she sees it like I am. I just can't stand it!

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EveryDayIsADuvetDay · 16/03/2021 22:01

I don't think I know anyone that uses the word/phrase.
But if I did and they were offering... I'd say yes (just to be polite) Grin

VeniVidiWeeWee · 16/03/2021 22:38

Why are you correcting them? It's a perfectly acceptable colloquialism.

OwlinaTree · 16/03/2021 22:40

Lots of people say cuppa. Like 'fancy a cuppa?' or 'pop round for a cuppa next week'. Perfectly acceptable use of language.

'go a wee' would annoy me though!

UnderHisAye · 16/03/2021 22:42

Oh I hate cuppa!

MIL just says 'do you want a cup?'

Of what? Tea, coffee, just an empty cup? Angry

My son says 'I can't get asleep' instead of 'to sleep' and the older he gets the less cute it gets...

StillCoughingandLaughing · 16/03/2021 22:42

@idontlikealdi

Does this rub anyone else up the wrong way? I don't drink tea but I'll have 'a coffee' or 'a cup of coffee'.

Having a 'cuppa' just annoys me. Mainly from MIL who also says she has 'to go a wee'.

It's causing friction because I correct the kids, would never correct mil but obviously she sees it like I am. I just can't stand it!

Of course she thinks you’re correcting her. Just don’t do it when she’s around.

It’s not like she’s using offensive language - it’s just a phrase you don’t like.

UnderHisAye · 16/03/2021 22:43

Oh but you are being a bit of a dick by pointing it out in her presence. Just let it go over your head, most kids don't learn all their vocabulary from their gran!

BackforGood · 16/03/2021 22:44

YABVU
It is a very commonly accepted and used colloquialism

Pebbledashery · 16/03/2021 22:44

My little girl says cuppa tea, it's too adorable to correct her at 2 years old. I would say just lighten up a tad.

Fedupmiddleagedwoman · 16/03/2021 22:47

Hmm. I’m irrationally annoyed by the expression “a coffee”.

StellaKowalski · 16/03/2021 22:48

Christ, really? No wonder it's causing friction ...

Cam2020 · 16/03/2021 22:49

Both horrid.

TwoZeroTwoZero · 16/03/2021 22:50

Wouldn't bother me at all. There's nothing wrong with saying, "a cup o' tea."

RaindropsSplashRainbows · 16/03/2021 22:51

You are being unreasonable to draw negative attention to your mil's speech like this.

Cuppaand2biscuits · 16/03/2021 22:51

As you can tell by my user name it's an expression I use often. It is as pp has said a perfectly acceptable form of colloquial language.
Are we having a cuppa?

Mayormaynothavehadit · 16/03/2021 22:53

I can't stand 'go for a coffee' either!

rainywindow · 16/03/2021 22:54

Cuppa is a well known word, I don’t see the issue

fallfallfall · 16/03/2021 22:56

Obviously you dislike her (feel threatened by her) and it really has nothing to do with the expression or the tea.

HoobleDooble · 16/03/2021 22:57

Cuppa wouldn't bother me but I live in an area where people 'go a walk' or 'take dog a walk'. I find myself inwardly screaming the word 'for'.

icelollycraving · 16/03/2021 22:58

I don’t like cuppa or brew.

AlwaysLatte · 16/03/2021 22:59

I don't like 'cuppa' or 'cuppa tea' either, it's so irritating!

SnarkyBag · 16/03/2021 22:59

Hate brew more

WitchesBritchesPumpkinPants · 16/03/2021 23:02

Nowt wrong with cuppa or cup o' tea?

orangecinnamon · 16/03/2021 23:06

Wouldn't it be boring if we all used language correctly, with no colloquialisms?

ElizaLaLa · 16/03/2021 23:09

The worst is 'go a bed'.

KittyCatalina · 16/03/2021 23:10

I don't actually say anything. I make a 't' shape with my fingers and raise my eyebrows.
This is usually met with a nod or a thumbs up.
Job done.

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