I've been with my partner for nearly 2 and half years and living with him since the first lockdown last year. He's always very secretive with his phone and he's constantly getting messages day and night, so I other day he went to work and left it at home. He doesn't know I know the passcode and I know I shouldn't have looked but I did and on Instagram messenger he's messaged some woman saying how amazing she looks and he's very jealous of her husband and can she send him nude pics on messenger so her husband can't see and she won't get into trouble that way!!! Thankfully she replied saying she doesn't do that but now I don't know what to do, our sex life had always been very good and I'm already very insecure about my body after having 3 c sections and this other woman hasn't had any kids and has a washboard stomach. I also found out that he didn't get divorced years ago but that it only came through on 1st March this year...obviously I can't confront him because it's my own soft fault for looking but I really don't know what to do, has anyone been in a similar situation