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Is this homemade mothers day gift naff?

86 replies

IPeedInThePool · 14/03/2021 08:38

I am super close with my MIL and am on a tight budget this month and wanted to make her something special from me for mothers day. My DH has got her some little things and me and the kids made cards yesterday. ....

Anyway here it is she's got a great sense of humour and uses the word gobshite all the time.
It's a wall hanging hand embroidered hoop picture

Is this homemade mothers day gift naff?
OP posts:
AdaThorne · 14/03/2021 09:40

I think that’s amazing :)

FishWithoutABike · 14/03/2021 09:40

I’d be tempted to make it into a card so she doesn’t feel like she has to display it. Not everyone gets that kind of honour.

FoonySpucker · 14/03/2021 09:40

Superb.

Aprilx · 14/03/2021 09:41

It’s not naff, but it is a horrible present.

BrownEyedGirl80 · 14/03/2021 09:42

@Aprilx op has said that mil uses that word all the time and its her sense of humour.

M0rT · 14/03/2021 09:43

Love it! I would display it, but I think even if she doesn't she would still love it.
It's so personal and you put time and effort into it

Eleventhgreenbottle · 14/03/2021 09:44

I got something similar one year and I love it!
My sense of humour must be like hers.

Ijustknowitstimetogo · 14/03/2021 09:45

@Whatnameisgood

The embroidered flowers are really sweet and I’d be touched someone had made it fir me, but only you can know if she’d be happy to put a swear word up on her wall
Yes agree. It’s beautifully done though.
IPeedInThePool · 14/03/2021 09:47

Am hoping she does display it she wont care about swearing on her wall she has some very outrageous fridge magnets. If she doesnt put it up I won't be offended just hope she likes it ....It took bloody hours Blush

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MarieeBarone · 14/03/2021 09:48

Love it. A nice inside joke.

Lovelydiscusfish · 14/03/2021 09:49

I’d fucking love that!

LubaLuca · 14/03/2021 09:50

You know that she's going to like it, and went to the effort of making it, so just give it to her.

Personally, I'd prefer it without the exclamation mark. I can't really explain why.

MistyGreenAndBlue · 14/03/2021 09:54

I think it's pretty funny - not hilarious- but amusing.

But the small g at the start of the word would annoy me so much I could never display it.
I'm probably in a pedantic minority there though

MistyGreenAndBlue · 14/03/2021 09:56

Personally, I'd prefer it without the exclamation mark. I can't really explain why.

Me too. It's because it puts the word off centre.

creepingthyme · 14/03/2021 09:57

I actually don't get it? Are the flowers supposed to represent each of you or something?

sunnysidegold · 14/03/2021 09:58

I think it's really thoughtful and well made. A handmade personal gift is a lovely idea. I swear a lot but wouldnt want a swear word on my wall but maybe you mil wouldn't mind that. Only you would know!

hulahooper2 · 14/03/2021 10:07

Not something I would like but only you know if she will appreciate it

Tal45 · 14/03/2021 10:16

Inspired! I love how it looks so innocent and sweet......and then when you look a bit closer.....

SoupDragon · 14/03/2021 10:21

@MistyGreenAndBlue

Personally, I'd prefer it without the exclamation mark. I can't really explain why.

Me too. It's because it puts the word off centre.

Yes! It bugged me too 😂
SquareOnTheHypoteneuse · 14/03/2021 10:21

She may or may not want to hang it on her wall but it will certainly put a smile on her face 😀

PrettyGuyforaWhiteFly · 14/03/2021 10:22

Bloody love it!

You know her sense of humour best and if she's displaying outrageous magnets I'm sure she'll love this.

There could be far more offensive words and if she says it a lot clearly she doesn't think so.

Sewing is lovely and although if normally cringe at no capital letters I think the small g worlds beautifully in this in that font. Unforgivable if it was a proper noun though Wink

Let us know what she thinks. I'd be thrilled!

Lockheart · 14/03/2021 10:24

I made my mum a very sweary embroidery hoop a few years back. Still hangs in her bedroom!

Some people won't like it, some will. You know your MIL best!

DietrichandDiMaggio · 14/03/2021 10:28

@creepingthyme

I actually don't get it? Are the flowers supposed to represent each of you or something?
Presumably the flowers are to make it like a typical mothers day gift, but then the OP has added the 'twist'.
IcelandThree · 14/03/2021 10:38

@Idontgiveagriffindamn

Only you know whether your MIL will like it. But it would be a no from me. Unless it was from one of my children (probably not when they’re grown up though - sorry).
You'd like it if 'gobshite' we was embroidered by a child??

OP, sounds like your MIL will love it if it's a word she uses and she already has sweary fridge magnets. It looks nicely embroidered.

YouAreYourBestThing · 14/03/2021 10:43

If my kids did something similar with the words 'fucking bollocks' on it...it would be me to a tee 🤣 That's my 'go to' swearing ranty phrase 🤣. I'd love it 👍🥰