I need a hand to hold.

[Troublewaters2021]

My DD8 had a heart transplant a few years ago now, she has been struggling this year on and off after a few good years. She has some changes in her cardiac echo however they said they would unlikely get worse they wasn’t really sure on the significance of the findings.
At 5.45 tonight she went in to perri arrest.
They were amazing and everything had happened so fast, she is stabilised in CICU. No one is allowed in apart from me she looks very peaceful, I am waiting for consultants.
I have been on here a while and sending myself crazy looking at the clock with no one to cry to.
It all happened so fast she was playing in the back and then she came through to say she didn’t feel well. Went to get her some paracetamol and when I came back in she was on the floor.

Thinking of you and your family xxxx

Handhold from me

Holding your hand, OP, she's in the right place and receiving treatment. Please be kind to yourself, she'll need her mum when she's recovering x

Love to you and your precious girl

Handhold and prayers for your precious daughter

Sending a big hug and lots of love to you and your daughter.

Bless you both, that sounds incredibly scary for you. She's in the best possible place. I'll keep her in my prayers. Hugs xx

Thinking of you.

Love to you and your DD.

Sending you another hand to hold

Sending love and strength to you both.

She's in the right place.

Keep drinking, even if you can't face food. She needs you to be the strong one right now.

Thoughts and prayers along with hand holding as long as you need.

[quote Troublewaters2021]@MovedByFanciesThatAreCurled she is the most amazing child ! I know she is mine so I am slightly bias.
She went in to heart failure due to a form of cardiomyopathy.
She was in hospital a very long time and also suffered a stroke.
She loves music, she plays guitar and drums.
I have seen her sick previously even after the transplant but she has not been this bad since. I think it’s making me nervous that everything will be undone and we will back to square 1[/quote]
She sounds amazing - an absolute fighter and one with rhythm too! I know what it’s like to be on a cardiac ward - but know that they are amongst the most highly trained, specialised medical staff out there. For you the time drags and the thoughts spiral - but for her she is is just asleep x

Sending a virtual hug. Keep positive. Your daughter has great doctors, nurses and HCAs caring for her. I'll be thinking of you both, and your family.

Sending love and strength and positive vibes to you and your DD

Your daughter sounds amazing, and such a tough little thing! I hope she (and you) have a good night and things start to look more positive really soon. Thinking of you both x

Sending you and your daughter a big hug and thinking of you both

Handhold sent, with a virtual hug ((((hug))))). Stay strong OP.

Hand hold and sending lots of positive prayers.

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Sending you big hugs

Oh mama you poor thing. hope and prayers all will be well xx

Strength and best wishes and hand.

Sending you both my love and prayers. Hand holding and hugs.