You have to understand that there are plenty of people who are happy to have a little less and not have to work very much. That's not bashing people on benefits, it is and always has been the truth.
While I don't doubt there are people like that, there are also people like me that are not.
It is a trap, but that only becomes apparent when you try and lift yourself out of it.
It might appear from the outside that I'm happy to be 'trapped' because my circumstances have changed very little during the 26 years since I had my first job, it may appear that I've done nothing, not worked hard enough or been proactive enough in changing my circumstances, because they haven't changed. But I have.
I've never been out of work for more than a couple of weeks since I was 15. I could go back to any of the employers that I've worked for (all things being equal) judging by their respective references and them telling me that in person. I've been promoted in quite a few of them too, studied (sometimes at my own cost) applied myself and worked hard. The difference is that I've worked hard in the jobs that were open to me, hospitality, care and a brief foray into retail, they are just not considered worth paying a lot for. I've been turned down for jobs recently because I was applying for 'entry level' (junior care, bar staff, shop assistant) because they thought I wouldn't be happy in the role because of the experience and qualifications I've got. The next step up (management roles, team leader, etc) I got no joy from because I had work based experience and qualifications, not a levels or a degree.
And here I am, at 41, back in a minimum wage job, because it's all I could get. I'm lucky that the employer I work for saw themselves as getting bargain rather than a burden. Doesn't help me out of this trap though does it.
I can't afford to give up work and go to university, or even college, I'm stuck with on the job training.
I'm relatively happy where I am, it's a nice place to work, decent employers and it pays some of the bills.
I've tried time and again to lift myself out of this, to get myself above the threshold for tax credits, but it's nigh on impossible without a lot of luck.
And by luck I don't mean someone handing it to me, I mean both mental and physical health staying good (both of mine have taken a hit in the last 25 years more than once) I mean luck like having an LL that doesn't sell 6 months in meaning you have to move, and as you can't afford anything available near you, moving further away and it not being feasible to keep the job you're doing well at. I mean luck like the CMS actually squeezing money out of people like my ex who walk away from their responsibility, instead of just letting it go.
So yeah, to some it might seem like I'm happy to have less, because I earn less, I'm not I've got no choice. Being miserable about it will solve nothing, though I suspect that some people on this thread think I should be and that would give them satisfaction.
At the moment I'm taking stock, it's been a very hard year with trying to survive on furlough, then being made redundant, then knowingly going into a job where I'm at higher risk of covid and could find myself in a position where I've been the person who's unwittingly carried it in to numerous vulnerable people.
That doesn't mean I'm happy to be trapped.