£30 a week to NEVER see your kids???? Is it worth it? Does anybody truly believe that this is a choice I’m making????? I’d love to hear another solution
This was my situation. I earned £30k but at the time, you could get the interests on your mortgage paid and interest rates were much higher. On £30k, I was it entitled to £50 a month tax credits yet paid £400 a month childcare (after-school and before school clubs) and more with school holidays.
So indeed, I calculated that I was it about £100 better off a month, no better off during school holidays, bit I still did it.
I dropped my kids off at 7:30, commuted for an hour and picked them up between 5:30 and 6pm depending on traffic.
Was it worth it! It didn't seem so at the time but looking back, best decision I made. I was promoted twice in the next 10 years and my earning went up significantly. I also did a Master's during that time.
As another poster mentioned, I contributed during my pension which means I'll be able to retire at 60 and maybe even earlier.
To be, that £100 extra was much much more than a small cash incentive. At the time, I did envy my friends who got to work only 16h, and had so much more energy than I and seemed to enjoy life much more. The roles are now significantly reversed, but likely for a much longer timeframe.
It was an investment and even though I missed out on some things, it certainly was worth it for where I am now.
Also to add, this lifestyle taught my kids to be resilient and used to long hours which as really helped them adjust to adult life and indeed working FT and long hours.