@BearEastie
As a HCP I Have lots of ladies ask for a female member of staff to care for them, unfortunately due to the way our ward works we can not always guarantee that and they are advised that this is the case. Reason for asking can be cultural to rape but it is always the same answer.
I have never had a woman decline the care of a male member of staff saving her life.
You made a statement up thread regarding HIV and us knowing the status, we treat every patient as one who has an infectious disease such as HIV/HEP and use appropriate PPE.
We now treat every patient as if they have covid and use the same level of PPE, the only time this changes is if they are having an aerosol generated procedure and we use the mask we have been FIT tested for.
I would not disclose my covid vaccine status to a patient of mine, however and this is where I do not feel you are being unreasonable, I would not be offended by you asking and I would not be offended by you refusing my care. As you have said previously you do and should get a choice in who cares for you.
Playing devils advocate though,
how would you feel if midway through your treatment there was not a confirmed vaccinated HCP to care for you?
How would you feel to know that the vaccine does not reduce transmission?
How would you feel if you tested positive on admission and could potentially pass the infection on but all of the staff were still happy to treat you and use the same PPE as they usually do?
The hospital Trust I work in does not know my covid vaccination status and I have not shared it with them as no one has asked so I would be doubtful if they could give you the answers to reassure you.
I hope your procedure goes well and you get some reassurance but please remember, we will do everything in our power to keep you safe and protect you as best we can