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to think I have strange vocab

477 replies

pinkhappy · 20/02/2021 07:25

I recently moved to a new city. I had some new friends round and discovered that not one of them had heard of a (criminal) fence. This is a word that everyone I knew before would have known.

Then I was listening to the radio and they used the word antimacassar which I had never heard of. Turns out everyone in my new city knows it.

So, a poll. Do you know

  1. what a (criminal) fence is only

  2. what an antimacassar is only

  3. both

  4. neither

OP posts:
Piggyhoolier · 20/02/2021 09:27

3

But I’ve never seen antimacassar written down and had no idea it was spelled like that. And I also think you’d have to be over a certain age to know it. Also think it is regional because only my family from one county had them, none in my county did but visiting their homes is why I learned the word iyswim.

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/02/2021 09:27

@Ijustknowitstimetogo

I’ve heard of both and know what a criminal fence is but wasn’t sure if an antimacassar was the cover on the back of a chair or a prayer cushion in a church for kneeling on. I get those two confused.
The kneeler in church is a hassock.
PurpleWh1teGreen · 20/02/2021 09:27

3

Not sure when I last used either word in conversation though.

MrsMop1964 · 20/02/2021 09:27
  1. Could it be an age thing?
Taswama · 20/02/2021 09:28
Desperatelyseekingreason · 20/02/2021 09:29

3

Concertedaction · 20/02/2021 09:30

3

oneglassandpuzzled · 20/02/2021 09:30

3

lockeddownandcrazy · 20/02/2021 09:31

3

user0987654 · 20/02/2021 09:31

4

thinkingaboutLangCleg · 20/02/2021 09:31

3

Bouncebacker · 20/02/2021 09:31

3

Spidey66 · 20/02/2021 09:31

Criminal fence? Don't you mean criminal offence?

Cornishmumofone · 20/02/2021 09:32

3

MartiniDry · 20/02/2021 09:33

3 - both.

LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood · 20/02/2021 09:33

3

starfishmummy · 20/02/2021 09:34

3

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/02/2021 09:34

@Spidey66

Criminal fence? Don't you mean criminal offence?
Fence - as in someone who buys stolen goods. Watch a few episode of Minder, it comes up regularly.
knittingaddict · 20/02/2021 09:34

3

However find this thread odd because i know what they mean (I read a lot) but have never used either of those words in conversation. Do people even use antimacassers these days?

chomalungma · 20/02/2021 09:35

1 - but I do watch a lot of 70s and 80s TV series such as Minder.

Never heard of the second one.

AndwhenyougetthereFoffsomemore · 20/02/2021 09:36
  1. Antimacassar only from books though, I don’t think I’ve ever heard it said ...
ErrolTheDragon · 20/02/2021 09:36

3 - but I think knowing 'antimacassar' is probably more a function of age than location.

TressiliansStone · 20/02/2021 09:37

3

Only the other day I thought, "I need antimacassars if I'm going to keep using this hair gel."

MillyMinamino · 20/02/2021 09:38

3 - although I'm not sure I've ever used antimacassar in conversation. I also know andirons and casters - from old relatives in old-fashioned houses (I'm 35). And there's a poem called Land of Counterpane by Robert Louis Stevenson about a child playing with toy soldiers while ill in bed, my mum used to read it when I was little.

EwwwCoffee · 20/02/2021 09:38

3