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to think I have strange vocab

477 replies

pinkhappy · 20/02/2021 07:25

I recently moved to a new city. I had some new friends round and discovered that not one of them had heard of a (criminal) fence. This is a word that everyone I knew before would have known.

Then I was listening to the radio and they used the word antimacassar which I had never heard of. Turns out everyone in my new city knows it.

So, a poll. Do you know

  1. what a (criminal) fence is only

  2. what an antimacassar is only

  3. both

  4. neither

OP posts:
feathersandferns · 20/02/2021 09:10

3

RuthW · 20/02/2021 09:12

4

Have just looked both up.

WeatherwaxOn · 20/02/2021 09:13

3, but do people actually use antimacassars any more?

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/02/2021 09:13

All of those words. I read, watch TV etc. I'm not a criminal but I know about fences from TV dramas. I'm not a Victorian but I know about antimacassars from reading.

1Morewineplease · 20/02/2021 09:14

2

BigRedBoat · 20/02/2021 09:14

3

mum2jakie · 20/02/2021 09:14

1

changi · 20/02/2021 09:16

Both.

noblegreenk · 20/02/2021 09:17

4

Lalliella · 20/02/2021 09:17

2 But I’m old!

PuppyMonkey · 20/02/2021 09:18

1

Manzana · 20/02/2021 09:19

3

UntamedWisteria · 20/02/2021 09:20

3

VictoriaLudorum · 20/02/2021 09:20

3
but I do not move in circles where either would be used regularly.

MariaAngustias · 20/02/2021 09:20

3

LyndaSnellsSniff · 20/02/2021 09:20

3

But I always thought antimacassar is a very exotic word for such a mundane item!

UntamedWisteria · 20/02/2021 09:20

I suspect this is a function of age and education, not geography.

JaninaDuszejko · 20/02/2021 09:21

@Ihearab

Ok so another one OP - do you know what a counterpane is?
That immediately made me think of:

When I was sick and lay a-bed,
I had two pillows at my head
And all my toys beside me lay
To keep me happy all the day...

I only know antimacassar because of MN and didn't know fence. I don't mix with many criminals though.

TramaDollface · 20/02/2021 09:21

One of my first married arguments with my lovely shiny new husband was over how to pronounce antimacassar

DuckonaBike · 20/02/2021 09:22
  1. And I have wondered about the connection with Macassar (the place) so thanks to a PP for clarifying that!
CaptainMyCaptain · 20/02/2021 09:25

@LyndaSnellsSniff

3

But I always thought antimacassar is a very exotic word for such a mundane item!

Macassar was a hair product used by men in Victorian times. The anti-macassar prevented it from rubbing off on the chairs. People still used them into the 1970s and 80s, in fact I think my mother in law has some even though both her sons are bald. l7.alamy.com/zooms/b99bfca0671a49ce892d4aef0c06b7c8/antimacassar-on-an-armchair-in-the-living-room-at-20-forthlin-road-fdm11h.jpg
ItWasntMyFault · 20/02/2021 09:25

3

CaptainMyCaptain · 20/02/2021 09:26

I hadn't read the whole thread, somebody may have already explained that. Sorry.

Stifledlife · 20/02/2021 09:26

Macassar was an oil that men used to style their hair with.. Think Brylcreem.

This used to leave dark oily patches on armchairs, thus antimacassars were used widely to prevent this.

A fence is a no brainer, but maybe I move in dodgy circles.

3

Scarby9 · 20/02/2021 09:27

3

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