Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to think I have strange vocab

477 replies

pinkhappy · 20/02/2021 07:25

I recently moved to a new city. I had some new friends round and discovered that not one of them had heard of a (criminal) fence. This is a word that everyone I knew before would have known.

Then I was listening to the radio and they used the word antimacassar which I had never heard of. Turns out everyone in my new city knows it.

So, a poll. Do you know

  1. what a (criminal) fence is only

  2. what an antimacassar is only

  3. both

  4. neither

OP posts:
Sadik · 20/02/2021 10:44

3 but I'm old.

I remember using a 'bottom drawer' in conversation with my ex (as an analogy I think, I'm not that old, and he was Confused

So another one - would you know what I meant if I talked about someone planning their marriage having a bottom drawer.

horridhorrid · 20/02/2021 10:44

3

HeronLanyon · 20/02/2021 10:45

serin singlet - that took me back to an infants’ school assembly where the northern headmistress sternly told us all that boys were not allowed to wear singlets. Very few of us knew what this meant. Cue lots of huddled confused discussions in the playground. Most of us little girls thought it was some ‘dirty, unspoken, boy thing’ and didn’t think we had ever seen a ‘singlet’. I don’t even think I asked my parents what one was - I was convinced it was ‘shameful’ somehow. Smile

biddybird · 20/02/2021 10:46

1

crossstitchingnana · 20/02/2021 10:46

4

Toorapid · 20/02/2021 10:48

Singlet is still in common use surely? I run in a singlet all summer

thebabessavedme · 20/02/2021 10:49

3, and I had a 'bottom drawer'

I am old

OldRailer · 20/02/2021 10:50

I would never use singlet..vest covers it.

Cocolapew · 20/02/2021 10:50

Both

Toorapid · 20/02/2021 10:50

I know bottom drawer too. I really am feeling old this morning Grin

Toorapid · 20/02/2021 10:51

In fact, I had a bottom drawer. There wasn't much in it, but my DGM kept giving me bits for it.

ludothedog · 20/02/2021 10:51

Fence as in someone who sells stolen goods? No idea about the other word

DietrichandDiMaggio · 20/02/2021 10:51

3, but can't really think why they would come up in conversation with friends.

ludothedog · 20/02/2021 10:52

I had a moving out bottom drawer Grin

BerniesMittens · 20/02/2021 10:53

3

DietrichandDiMaggio · 20/02/2021 10:56

@pinkhappy

You don't have weird vocab, you need more learned friends. grin

It is weirdly disconcerting to see the blank look on people’s faces locally when I ask them what fence means. From this thread it seems most people do know the word so now it’s even stranger!

Surely the strange looks are because you are asking people you barely know odd questions.
OldRailer · 20/02/2021 10:57

Do they think you are LOOKING for a fence?Grin

BLToutanowhere · 20/02/2021 10:57

1

AubergineDream · 20/02/2021 10:57

4

viques · 20/02/2021 10:58

@Ginfordinner

Trains used to have antimacassars on the seat backs when I was little.

Off to Google criminal fence.

And airplane seats! Though I think the Macassar disappeared long before commercial flying was a thing.

I think anyone who reads old British crime fiction (dark green penguin books are my weakness) would know what a fence was guv’nor.

Member984815 · 20/02/2021 11:02

1

rainbowstardrops · 20/02/2021 11:02

4

I Googled antimacassars because didn't know the word but my Nan used to have those on her furniture! Aww

pinkhappy · 20/02/2021 11:02

Do they think you are LOOKING for a fence?grin

Yes I did wonder about that :)

OP posts:
TableFlowerss · 20/02/2021 11:03

4

RockingMyFiftiesNot · 20/02/2021 11:04

3 - I don't think they are regional terms