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to think I have strange vocab

477 replies

pinkhappy · 20/02/2021 07:25

I recently moved to a new city. I had some new friends round and discovered that not one of them had heard of a (criminal) fence. This is a word that everyone I knew before would have known.

Then I was listening to the radio and they used the word antimacassar which I had never heard of. Turns out everyone in my new city knows it.

So, a poll. Do you know

  1. what a (criminal) fence is only

  2. what an antimacassar is only

  3. both

  4. neither

OP posts:
YouKnowItsTrue · 20/02/2021 10:26

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echt · 20/02/2021 10:26

But then I'm 65+, which probably helps.

Neolara · 20/02/2021 10:27
  1. I am old and (I think) have an excellent vocabulary but I have never, ever heard the word antimacassar in my life before. I'm surprised so many people know it. But my grandparents and all other elderly relatives were South African and maybe antimacassars weren't a thing out there which is why I've never come across it.
thefallthroughtheair · 20/02/2021 10:28

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This is a brilliant thread - thank you OP!

Labobo · 20/02/2021 10:28

@SweetCharities

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1 isn't a word

you mean criminal offence which you jolly well know Grin

I thought to fence meant to look after stolen goods for the thief and to maybe sell them on. To be a fence is to be someone who does this. Doesn't do the thieving but takes the goods afterwards.
Serin · 20/02/2021 10:28

It was my use of the words singlet (for vest) and snap (for lunch, miners used to take their lunches in a snap tin) that had my friends befuddled.
I'm from an ex mining village.

Toorapid · 20/02/2021 10:29

I looked up "fence". An interesting origin. Criminals used (use) a middle man to sell on stolen goods as a "defence" from getting caught.

WeeWillyWanky · 20/02/2021 10:29

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OldRailer · 20/02/2021 10:30

I know antimacassar from books only, I feel it's the type of word my parents would have known if I asked them. I now vaguely feel they did tell me. But it had no reason to come up in conversation even in my lifetime (50s)

My gran had moved on to plastic covering !

OldRailer · 20/02/2021 10:31

The charge was receiving stolen goods.

Woeismethischristmas · 20/02/2021 10:31

1 I googled antimaccassar so now I do though.

Glitterblue · 20/02/2021 10:32

4

SweetCharities · 20/02/2021 10:32

I thought she meant there were two groups of people - the first abbreviated 'criminal offence' to fence, or criminal fence. And at the other end of the spectrum were those who knew what antimacassars were.

TrailingLobelias · 20/02/2021 10:32

4

NotSeenBulling · 20/02/2021 10:33

3

Toorapid · 20/02/2021 10:34

I remember antimacassars being in common use, a defence against brillcream in my youth, rather than oil as such, but even then, although people knew the word, I don't think it was used. We said doily (sp?) Grin

SirVixofVixHall · 20/02/2021 10:35

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Kokapetl · 20/02/2021 10:37

1 but only from reading / tv. Never used it in this context. I knew antimacassers were something to do with chairs but not exactly what.

OldRailer · 20/02/2021 10:37

Interesting Toorapid.
I remember the doily type thing in a very elderly aunt's place.
I would have been being fed biscuits and barely talking so what to call the million odd old objects in that room didn't come up!

WeeDangerousSpike · 20/02/2021 10:39

I'm in my 30s, my grannie's sister had antimacassars, I remember the first time someone used the word, I thought it was wonderful - sort of rolls around your mouth Grin

Coffeeisnecessary · 20/02/2021 10:39

I had to look up antimacassar, it's not in my autocorrect either!! Know fence though. I'm 40 and live in South East.

hiredandsqueak · 20/02/2021 10:40

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Fiona2020 · 20/02/2021 10:43

4 a criminal offence I’ve heard of?!

itsgettingwierd · 20/02/2021 10:44

Having googled to know what both those things are - but not the words used for them!

So it would 4 if I heard the words.

3 if I knew the words were used for those meanings Grin

MirandaWestsNewBFF · 20/02/2021 10:44

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