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blueteddy11 · 14/02/2021 16:30

Last night I watched "what's your number " on prime it's about how many sexual partners youv had. What's your number ? How old are you ? Are you proud or ashamed of it? I am 31 years old slept with 25 not proud of it !!!

OP posts:
yarncakes · 14/02/2021 23:45

And I'm almost 30!

Significantown · 14/02/2021 23:47

Nah frida that was meant to be a dash. Like ex says I shagged loads of guys, I say I shagged 4 including him.

Bubblefart · 14/02/2021 23:48
  1. Late thirties now. I want more.
DoItYourselfNeverHappensAtOurs · 15/02/2021 06:22

[quote TwoLeftSocksWithHoles]@LApprentiSorcier

Hold on you haven't included those two before lunch today![/quote]
I hope they were socially distanced shags.

[covid police alert]

readingismycardio · 15/02/2021 06:27

28, 11, my DH included.. I do feel that's a lot, but not because of the number, but the quality of men. If I could go back, I'd probably only sleep with 5 of those 11Grin

SD1978 · 15/02/2021 06:53

I think it's more unfortunate those who regret their encounters, than the actual number. It should be something that's enjoyed, and not something you look back on with regret.

ItsNotAlrightButItsOkay · 15/02/2021 07:20

I've had the same sexual partner for 11 years (I'm 31)
My number is around the 11 mark I think. Not ashamed of it.

RosieLemonade · 15/02/2021 07:26

Definitely less than a ball park

CarolVordermansBum · 15/02/2021 14:56

Enough to fill Wembley stadium

Sylvac · 15/02/2021 15:20

@LApprentiSorcier

96,111,765
Thats very low, are you sure?
lucywho123 · 15/02/2021 15:36

I did try to count a few years ago. Think it was around 40. Maybe up to 42/43 now. Im mid 30's and had a lot of fun in my 20's so the number doesnt bother me at all

bloodyhairy · 15/02/2021 15:42

I'm 46 and divorced. In my lifetime I've had 6 men.
I'm quite old-fashioned, I guess.

Sheleg · 15/02/2021 15:43

3 women
9 men

YouShouldLeave · 15/02/2021 15:59

0, I am 34.

Yes, i am proud of it.

People have bullied me, try to embarrass me about throught the years, so yeah, I’ve learned to be proud of my choice.

YouShouldLeave · 15/02/2021 16:00

Oh and virgin and prude shame me.

Buffaloskull · 15/02/2021 16:13

Not a fucking clue.

Shodan · 15/02/2021 16:17

Somewhere in the 40s I think.

Je ne regrette rien Grin

lucywho123 · 15/02/2021 17:02

@YouShouldLeave

0, I am 34.

Yes, i am proud of it.

People have bullied me, try to embarrass me about throught the years, so yeah, I’ve learned to be proud of my choice.

I honestly don't see how this conversation even comes up in every day life? My friends/family would have no idea of my number
honeylulu · 15/02/2021 17:16

7 if you count full shagging. I'm actually envious of people who have had lots of partners and report how jolly enjoyable it all was. I always fancied myself as liberated but casual sex just didn't work for me. I tried but unless I was really attracted to the chap and there had been something of a build up of chemistry over a period of dating, the sex didn't work for me. It doesn't matter now as I've been married for a long time. However people I've told my number are always shocked it seems low as I am enthusiastic about how much I do enjoy sex and they're surprised I haven't tried out more willies haha.

apalledandshocked · 15/02/2021 17:18

It only counts if you orgasm anyway OP. I think in most cases it brings it right down.

Aprilx · 15/02/2021 17:23

Not a conversation I would have in real life. But for on here, my number is 6, I am 50 years old and have been with DH since I was 34.

Rhapus123 · 15/02/2021 17:30

I'm 41 and delighted to say just my husband of 15 years!

AprilThe8th · 15/02/2021 17:41

Less than 35.Im 40 years old

NeverDropYourMoonCup · 15/02/2021 20:01

@apalledandshocked

It only counts if you orgasm anyway OP. I think in most cases it brings it right down.
That means I was a sodding virgin until I was 40, then. Two kids, but still a virgin...
LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 15/02/2021 20:42

@apalledandshocked

It only counts if you orgasm anyway OP. I think in most cases it brings it right down.

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