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What's your number

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blueteddy11 · 14/02/2021 16:30

Last night I watched "what's your number " on prime it's about how many sexual partners youv had. What's your number ? How old are you ? Are you proud or ashamed of it? I am 31 years old slept with 25 not proud of it !!!

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WonderEwe25 · 14/02/2021 20:54

@SummerBlondey

Roughly around 75 and I am 26 years old

That's almost one man every month, for a solid 8 years. I'm wondering how one bags that many men, do you stand in the bushes with a large net or something?

Ahhh you caught me 😂 I am the mad women who stood in a bush with a net and some beer
Happylittlethoughts · 14/02/2021 21:01

Not anyones business. I'd change the people I had conversations with if I were you.
Stop with the "not proud of it" shite. Let's not shame women for being sexually active. Let's not not buy into the stereotype that goodness in women is inversely correlated to their sexual activity.
It's the 21st century !!

SameToo · 14/02/2021 21:04

Ewwww who discusses this? Are you 15?

Significantown · 14/02/2021 21:08

According to evil ex husband-lots. According to me -4. I think I might have more of an idea than him, but I do double-check sometimes. there’s a term for when a man tries to make you believe something that isn’t true

Ch3rish · 14/02/2021 21:10

@SameToo

Ewwww who discusses this? Are you 15?
Exactly what I was thinking as I was reading this, sounds like the sort of conversation I had at school and never since, who cares how many people other people have slept with, not mature adults surely
LividLoving · 14/02/2021 21:13

I married #1 and #23 Grin

TheDuchessofCambridge · 14/02/2021 21:24

Well over a thousand for me

LabCoatPocket · 14/02/2021 21:26

I am 40. I have slept with 5 men.

I married two of them. Honestly, I wish I spent the 10 years of my first marriage, unmarried and exploring my sexuality and having lots of casual sex, with lots and lots of men.

FredaFlintstone · 14/02/2021 21:26

According to evil ex husband-lots. According to me -4

Minus 4? Now that's an impressive level of restraint right there!

slashlover · 14/02/2021 21:27

I'm 42 - my number is 0.

crystalpaula · 14/02/2021 21:31

I'm 33, been with around 26. I wish I hadn't slept with half of them but can't change the past.

VoleClock · 14/02/2021 21:32

54-46 that's my number

CeefBurry · 14/02/2021 21:38

Fucking thousands . And that's yearly .
Fuck knows how many in total but it's all good.

GeidiPrimes · 14/02/2021 21:43

49 and I have no idea really. A lot by most peoples standards I'd guess. I've been celibate since my husband died though because I just don't think I'd get my kicks through sex anymore. I just don't really want any more.

HeatherShimmerIsMyShade · 14/02/2021 21:55

"Less than Madonna, more than Princess Di - I hope"

User583 · 14/02/2021 22:08

I'm 37 and if I had to take a guess I'd say somewhere about 30. Some relationships, some flings, a couple of FWB, some regrettable one night stands, some fantastic one night stands.

I would never disclose that (approximate) figure to a partner though, not would I ask for his 'number'. I'm not at all ashamed of it myself, I just think that whatever the number is, both the question and the answer can very easily lead to discontent and friction in a relationship all manner of ways.

BrokenCircle · 14/02/2021 22:16

Dunno. Maybe 20.

noblegreenk · 14/02/2021 22:16

I'm 35 and my number is 22. I'm not proud or ashamed of it, it is what it is.

PamelaApples · 14/02/2021 22:20

Around 17 I think

Voice0fReason · 14/02/2021 22:20

The only person I would be judging is the person who asked this question.
Why would anyone want to know?

LadyfromtheBelleEpoque · 14/02/2021 23:08

May I ask some of you with high numbers where do you find the time to fit this all in?

Seriously. I’m knackered with just working full time. Shock

Pollypudding · 14/02/2021 23:11

Yeah - not playing Biscuit

Cissyandflora · 14/02/2021 23:14

Eleventy

GintyMcGinty · 14/02/2021 23:17

3 for me. More for husband. We've been together 22 years. I'm 46.

yarncakes · 14/02/2021 23:43

8.. Well 7 technically cos one of them had a very tiny cock Envy

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