to think smacking an 18 mth old

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for peeing on you when changing his nappy is well out of order?

Yes.

YANBU

Sorry I meant NO

Yes OMG..who will do that ?

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YANBU

YANBU - that's not good! He can't help it at that age!

YANBU, definitely.

thats awful

If he's in nappies, then more or less by definition he hasn't got the power to control it yet.

thank you.
exactly lemonaidtreasonandplot.

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Please tell me this is a wind-up.

My ds wee'd in his own ear when he was tiny.

It's not nice to be wee'd on of course, and I may have been rather exasperated - but I wouldn't hit a child for it, of course.

18 months of changing a nappy and someone hasn't been weed on before or worked out a strategy for dealing with it?

H did it.

well then, no offence, but he's a wanker.

I think you have been changing too many nappies and your dh needs a bit more practice of doing it.

OTOH, if he is going to smack a child for something the child has no control over, maybe not.

Actually Dumbledores Girl he the main carer.

In that case

oh dear I hope you kicked her hubby in the nuts when dc wasn't looking. No seriously I wouldn't even cross my mind to smack my dd she is nearly 18 months, neither would dh. You need to have a long chat with your hubby.

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of course i challenged him Dumbledoresgirl. Put his back up and we had a row.

hey there, of course it is not ok to hit an 18 month old BUT is it because your H is really stressed out and needs some support (and obviously to know that smacking is NOT OK). He maybe is rowing because he knows it is wrong and feels terrible.

I shouted terribly violently at dd this morning because I am so damn tired. Not Ok. And she got big apologies and cuddles but I would more appreciate my dh to be giving me a break and a cup of tea to allow me to calm down than having a massive go (without condoning of course but I know it is out of order). Do you see what I mean?