Monthly, I put £190 in to workplace pension (pre tax)
£250 in to my savings as a standing order
£500 from DH in to H2B ISA
£150 approx from me in to another of my savings accounts
£70 from joint account in to DS’ savings account, plus the odd £10 or £20 that we can spare per month in to his account, plus all birthday/Christmas money
We’re saving (slowly) for a house deposit, but can’t really save more as DS’ nursery is £1200 a month. DH foolishly still hasn’t sorted a private pension (he’s self employed) despite me going on about it all the time. I hope we can save more ultimately.
Just to say to anyone who is reading this and despairing - please don’t. Even if you can only save £5, £10, £15 a month it does add up, it will help you down the line and it does make a difference. If you can’t afford at all or to save for your children don’t worry about that either. My parents couldn’t save for me and I’ve been very happy, successful and managed just fine.
We didn’t save in our early 30s but I really, really wish we had.
My only other bit of advice is never, ever, ever quit a pension. Always pay in to your pension (as I keep telling DH...)