In essence every penny we earn sort of gets saved because its all immediately divided up into different pots.
So every month we put, aside for holidays, separate again for bday, separate again for Xmas, childrens clothes and sundries, another children's account for school meals etc...
Then another for family general savings eg new washing machine kind of stuff, a car fund, then I put 50 per month into an isa.
Some of the amounts are small but add up over the year. At times when we have been on one wage the amounts going in have been maybe 5 a month... But it was still something.
Now we have two wages, more goes in.
Any Xmas money or bday money gets put across all these pots also.
We also have petrol and social spending pots so we know exactly where we are.
At the moment we have excess petrol money each month so that goes to top up the food budget and any left over goes towards the pot that needs it most eg I just brought some things for dd bday...
Social money also not spent so again at the end of the month that will go to another pot.
We know exactly where we are, we know we can afford treats when out eg the infamous mumsnet... Splurge on the hot chocolate when out 😂😂🔥🍫.
It's taken all the stress and worry out of spending because we know what we have.
I started to do this in the credit crunch because we couldn't afford anything and had a small dc.