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Getting snowed in

124 replies

myoho · 06/02/2021 09:33

We are forecast heavy snow tomorrow. I live at the very end of a long windy road which is downhill. I park on my own driveway. In the past when we've had heavy snow I have been snowed in either because I can't get up the hill and/or because other vehicles are stranded up the road.

This is my first winter in a new job and my manager expects me to park my car away from my house on the main road so I can get to work. AIBU to worry that my car might get damaged by someone ploughing into it in bad weather and/or my insurance company would not pay up if they did as I clearly state that my car is parked on my drive overnight?

Would you do this?

OP posts:
MotherExtraordinaire · 06/02/2021 19:12

[quote jacks11]@MotherExtraordinaire

You are ridiculous. No, I’ve never had an accident purely because of ice. That’s not to say that I never will. I have, however, had an accident due to a deer jumping out and practically landing on my bonnet. This was at night. Perhaps I should stop driving at night? I’ve also had an accident when an idiot tried to overtake on a blind bend and couldn’t quite make it.

If I never ventured out in the event of snow/ice/high winds or rain, I’d spend much of the winter stuck indoors. Instead, I am sensible enough to make sure I take appropriate precautions and only stay at home if absolutely necessary. Which has been only a few occasions. The appropriate precautions I take are the following: because I live rurally, with single track roads that are not usually cleared by a snow plow (and if they are, tends to be later on in the day) I have an appropriate vehicle for where I live; I put on winter tyres in the winter, and change them to more appropriate tyres in the spring; I keep my car well maintained; I have blankets/snow shovel etc in the car if it’s really cold or snowy. But if I didn’t get to work every time the weather wasn’t great, I would be sacked. Rightly so. And my children would spend much of the winter out of school. It’s not arrogance, it’s called being responsible and sensible.

So I ask again- if everyone takes your attitude and does not go to work what do you think will happen? Hospitals will be unable to care for patients, community nurses will not provide care to their patients, carers will not provide care to the elderly and vulnerable clients they help. Ambulances will not attend emergencies, ditto police and fire service. Oh, and nobody will clear the roads to allow those emergency services to get where to where they are needed as safely as possible, as you can’t possibly expect the snow plows/salt spreaders to be out and about in the SNOW, can you?

What about vets? If they all took your attitude- well if an animal is sick it will just have to suffer as it is not safe to be out in bad weather.

There would be nobody to run other essential services- e.g. power and utilities. So, if power lines go down, for instance, you’ll just have to manage for however long without heating/light/running water etc.

Obviously, I wouldn’t advocate going out for a non-essential shopping trip or a drive for a picnic or to pop out for a coffee or something like that. But yes, I would expect you to go to work, especially if you work in an essential role, unless it is genuinely impossible or very unsafe. If you don’t feel confident driving in the snow, find an alternative way in.[/quote]
What alternative mode of transport would you suggest? For those thta live rurally. It takes us 40 minutes to get to a town. So should rural residents ride a horse to work?

Again, great if you live in an urban area and work locally. Not so if you're rural.

Why do so many schools close in snow and bad weather? Yet they too are essential services.

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 19:14

Anyone ever crashed as a result of ice and snow? I have twice. And I would not ever go against the advice again! I value life too much.You may not. And that's fine.
Let's hope that your children never have to suffer the pain of you being injured, or worst being forever lost to them as a result?
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Imagine if the hospital staff that tested you and the recovery truck driver that brought back your car all didn't go to work as it was snowing?

Imagine if your child needed an emergency operation to save their life, but it was snowing so the surgeon stayed home?

Imagine if the staff at the local supermarket didn't turn up as it was snowing?

Honestly, not everyone had the luxury of I'm following guidelines!

FFS get a grip, book yourself onto an advanced driving course to learn how to cope with driving in snow and ice!

DoubleHelix79 · 06/02/2021 19:16

How about getting snow chains in the future? Very common in the Alps, where people tend to live around steep areas that get a lot of snow and ice.

Helspopje · 06/02/2021 19:16

I’m in Scotland
We park close to the main road and walk down rather than risk a long drive/connecting road

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 19:16

@Aiaiaicorona I echo you're being ridiculous!

Aiaiaicorona · 06/02/2021 19:17

@Bookwords How so???

Aiaiaicorona · 06/02/2021 19:18

I think you have me mixed up with motherextraodinaire!

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 19:19

@Aiaiaicorona my apologies, I tagged the wrong person! Sorry Thanks

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 19:19

@Aiaiaicorona yes you're right! @MotherExtraordinaire is being totally ridiculous! 🙄

Aiaiaicorona · 06/02/2021 19:20

Ha ha! I totally agree she should take the advanced driving course though! And winter proof her car.

Puffalicious · 06/02/2021 19:33

Total non issue. As a PP said right at the start, of course you're insured- there's many times throughout a driving life that you're parked elsewhere overnight. Stop with the drama over snow- if you've passed a test you should be able to drive in all conditions.

tanstaafl · 06/02/2021 19:36

OP, YANBU to be worried about the insurance situation if you park away from home.

I’d advise parking somewhere gritted if at all possible, I’ve parked overnight in the local supermarket car park in the past.

We live close to a road that is gritted but have the same problem as you OP. If it snows we can’t get to the gritted road first thing in the morning.

We’ve taken to parking on the gritted road the evening before.

I have heard great things about winter tyres but what with lockdowns and having to replace all 4 tyres at the same time , it’s not an expense we’re prepared to make.

2typesofjungle · 06/02/2021 20:40

This is all so dramatic, just buy some snow socks.
The end.

MotherExtraordinaire · 06/02/2021 20:44

@DoubleHelix79

How about getting snow chains in the future? Very common in the Alps, where people tend to live around steep areas that get a lot of snow and ice.
Ridiculous comment. The use of snow chains is only legal in the UK, as long as they are not used in a manner that will damage the road surface. This means snow chains must only be used on snow-covered roads and need to be removed when driving on a tarmac surface. So on what was my previous commute I'd have been putting them on, taking them off, putting them on.... Yes realistic. Not. Safe to be doing on road sides to be acting within the law. Not.
MotherExtraordinaire · 06/02/2021 20:49

@Puffalicious

Total non issue. As a PP said right at the start, of course you're insured- there's many times throughout a driving life that you're parked elsewhere overnight. Stop with the drama over snow- if you've passed a test you should be able to drive in all conditions.
Absolutely. In theory.

How frequently does the 'average' person in the UK, drive in snow....

We last had any snow here 4 years ago and that was a sprinkling in the middle of the night. Before that the snow I spoke of was 9 years ago!

So, on that basis, noone who is an area that may get snow once a decade can hardly be proficient in driving in it, regardless of advanced driving course or not, given that theory and IRL are very different!

dottiedaisee · 06/02/2021 20:53

Am wondering how many of the people posting suggesting you get up early,walk ,get snow chains etc actually really understand what you have been dealing with over the last few months with Covid and probably rubbish pay ! Maybe they could volunteer this evening to their local care home to pick up the carers tomorrow at about 6 ish ..just a thought 🤔

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 20:57

Oh don't be so sanctimonious @dottiedaisee ! People are perfectly capable to get to work themselves!

Or would you suggest they come and take me shopping?

You do know that we're in the middle of a pandemic and not supposed to mix?

What an absolutely ridiculous a statement.

The OP can sort her own transport out, she's an adult.

MotherExtraordinaire · 06/02/2021 20:57

@2typesofjungle

This is all so dramatic, just buy some snow socks. The end.
Do you know how your supposed to use snow socks?

Snowsocks are only supposed to be used when are stuck. Once you're clear, you are meant to take them off again.
They only last 30 miles before they're worn out. So as I said before, for the average person this wouldn't get a person to and from work...
So again, a pointless suggestion.

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 20:58

@dottiedaisee and volunteer to the the local care home.... no DBS? No training?

What could possibly go wrong?

Bookwords · 06/02/2021 21:00

@MotherExtraordinaire so what if surgeons, nurses, anaesthetists all said, can't get to work it's snowing?

What would happen then if your child needed a life saving operation?

NoIDontWatchLoveIsland · 06/02/2021 21:05

Park it on the main road if you can do so safely. Can you get hold of a couple of traffic cones you could put a few metres behind & in front to dry and minimise risk of damage? I do think its sensible to park it in a place from which you can get to work, if you know your own road is bad for access in snow.

Remember if the snow/weather is bad there wont be many cars out driving in it.

helpfulperson · 06/02/2021 21:06

As mentioned above our local 4x4 drivers are out and about getting essential staff such as care home staff and other care staff to where they need to be. Farmers with quad bikes are getting home carers to remote locations. I agree that all those who can work from home should be, leaving the roads clearer for those, like care home staff, to get to work. And yes many of our local care home staff slept in the home during the horrific weather a couple of years ago.

jazzandh · 06/02/2021 21:08

..and you park on the main road and it's icy and some numpty skids into you.

You have to pay the excess, your car is out of action whilst getting fixed.......

That's so much better!

People parking at the sides of roads make life so much harder when there is snow.

PlanDeRaccordement · 06/02/2021 21:10

Everywhere I have lived with snowy winters it has been illegal to park on the side of the road because you’d be blocking the snow plows. They can also seriously damage your car even if they don’t actually hit it because of the mass of snow they are constantly pushing to the side of the road.
I suggest allowing your self a couple extra hours to dig your car out, shovel your way to road and then drive into work.

Casschops · 06/02/2021 21:11

Wouldn't parking your carcaway from the house mean that you can get to it easily. Is it that hard i park mine on the road in poor weather. Why the alarm.