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To think I'm the biggest fucking mug that ever existed.

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sharpsobjects · 02/02/2021 17:07

My ex got back in touch. He claimed to have realised he fucked stuff up with us, still loved me, blah blah.

2 months later he asked to borrow some money from me because he lost his job due to COVID.

I just found out it was for child maintenance. The mother? The woman he cheated on me with when we were together.

I feel sick. I'm a fucking idiot.

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LilyMumsnet · 02/02/2021 18:24

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