To love my new body & OH doesn't ?

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Don't actually give a F what he thinks, since my dc Iv just never been bothered to loose the baby weight i gained or to be bothered to be on a strict died ( I eat okay so that's fine)
Was only a stone so realisticly wasn't much but I finally put some meat on my horid scrawny legs, I have HIPS for once, I don't so much love the loose skin and stretch marks but I love that they was from my baby's so I don't care !
I love my new body and shape an size!

My oh constantly says I'm a fat and ugly and lazy and a slag.
ugly maybe,
fat? No but I'm now cuddly,
lazy I'm most certainly not, it's me who's up at 7 and doesn't sit down until bed time gone 11
Slag, wouldn't say so just because someone made me climax before I met you and you've never made me do this- doesn't make me a slag hun

I just wish he could put a sock in it and fucking choke on that smelly arse sock sometimes, I didn't ask for his opinion nor do I give a shit so shut up been a broken record telling me what you think??
I am in love with my body right now so go find this little barbie doll you so much longed for because it ain't me 🖕🏼

Sorry for the rant I'm just so annoyed hearing him xx

Your H is a cunt

@Sprockerdilerock tell me something I didn't know 😃

What the fuck???

OP you don’t need that kind of negativity, ignore him and LTB

what a fucking arsehole

My oh constantly says I'm a fat and ugly and lazy and a slag.

And you are with (and have had a BABY with this creature,) WHYYYYYYY?

He sounds fucking putrid.

He's an abusive twat. Why are you with him?

I'm financially stuck, I'm trying to save to leave but for now i can't do anything. He's only gone so horid recently I'm not sure why

In what way are you financially stuck?

That sounds awful. You've been resilient to see through it but that sort of treatment will grind you down in some way. What an utter dick.

This 'man' is around your child?

I have children, he is rarely around so that's irrelevant but when he is he's like that
He does get me down some times but I do and manage pretty well to block it out

Financially a mortgage I'm tied. Not sure how to get out of it. It's in his name and said I'd have to go not him but my house is specially adapted for my children so I can't just move I need a house specially adapted first

Sadly it is common for men to only turn abusive when they have their partner trapped, ie married, pregnant or financially reliant. Keep saving, you deserve better.

He feels he has the power over me now to act this way @Cloverforever
I am saving secretly and have the ball in motion to get a new house adapted so will have a shock when he comes home from work one day and we're gone. But until then it is what it is
I'm just annoyed so needed to vent sorry everyone
Don't like telling people I know because they don't like him anyway, his own family don't either

Have you spoken to Women's aid?

If the house is adapted, more likely that you might stay.

Please call them.

What a tosser OP.

Speak to Women's Aid asap as PP said. This is abusive behaviour, and if your house is adapted it may well be him that has to go.

You say 'other half'. Not married, I assume. So the assets are his? Or you would get half if you split?
Where were you living with your DC before you met him? Sorry, it sounds like you have DC from before this relationship, but it's not clear. I'd speed up getting away from him.

In the meantime, assuming he isn't violent, and you didn't at that, I'd get a t-shirt printed and wear it around the house everyday "Fat, lazy and a slag. But you should see the tiny cock on my other half 😂".

OP is totally allowed to say exactly what she likes about her abusive husband on an anonymous forum

Yes. It goes both ways. Posts also invite comments

You sound great op. You have some real spunk. He's threatened by how good you look and mostly by your newly gained self confidence

Good for you for having a plan to get out. What a twat.

@AriataBrown

OP is totally allowed to say exactly what she likes about her abusive husband on an anonymous forum

Yes. It goes both ways. Posts also invite comments

I don't disagree, but don't tell me if someone was being a nasty cunt to you for a sustained period of time you wouldn't at least silently think everything the OP has said here

AriataBrown
Slag, wouldn't say so just because someone made me climax before I met you and you've never made me do this- doesn't make me a slag hun. I just wish he could put a sock in it and fucking choke on that smelly arse sock sometimes

You sound as awful as each other.
Your poor child

😳😳😳😳 seriously I also hope he chokes on that sock.

I don't disagree, but don't tell me if someone was being a nasty cunt to you for a sustained period of time you wouldn't at least silently think everything the OP has said here

One wonders why women think it's a good idea to have children with arseholes like him. Not on the mortgage. Friends and even his own family dont like him. Yes. Im judging so bite me.

Blimey.