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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To report or not

52 replies

Eliza72 · 25/01/2021 17:45

Apolgies if there have been hundreds of these lately but I'm really torn.

I live in a seaside tourist town and earlier today I was stopped by a couple with south east accents asking me for directions to their holiday cottage Hmm

She showed me the booking sheet so that I could see the address and it was an airbnb booking for a week.

Half of me thinks I should mind my own and there could be a good reason for them being there for the week.

The other half of me can't think of what that reason would be. We have one small hospital over whelmed by covid about 20 miles away so if they get ill it's not a good place to be. Add to that I'm pretty sure that the owners of holiday lets were given a hefty sum in order to make up their income they were losing.

Oh I dunno.. what would you do?

Even if I do report, what realistically will be done?!

OP posts:
user1487194234 · 25/01/2021 18:31

I wouldn’t report them

MarieIVanArkleStinks · 25/01/2021 18:33

Just stop it.

Pinkcanoftan · 25/01/2021 18:34

I wouldn't, surely if they were breaking the bloody rulz they wouldn't have asked you so blatantly?

Reedwarbler · 25/01/2021 18:36

Oh fgs, mind your own business.

bloodyhairy · 25/01/2021 18:36

Oh, I wouldn't be so sure. Some people have no shame!

LucasLeesEyebrows · 25/01/2021 18:37

I’d mind my own business. Karma can be a real bitch.

BeaSmithers · 25/01/2021 18:44

Blimey. Keep your nose out

pinkpinecone · 25/01/2021 18:49

Don't report them Op, there could be lots of legitimate reasons they're there and it's just not your business.

Oneearringlost · 25/01/2021 19:09

No, don't report

Peculiartimes · 25/01/2021 19:13

I’d report. I’m sick to make sacrifices while others don’t care so I would report illegal actions.

Peculiartimes · 25/01/2021 19:14

@LucasLeesEyebrows
Karma?
I hope it’s definitely what you describe. Some people lose jobs and livelihoods to protect others, some want a nice holidays. Sounds karma to me.

ApolloandDaphne · 25/01/2021 19:21

I wouldn't report them. It's possible they are there for a funeral or a family member is possibly unwell and needing care.

AStudyinPink · 25/01/2021 19:21

I wouldn’t myself. Reporting my friends and neighbours (or even strangers) doesn’t sit well with me. Let the police catch them.

Eliza72 · 25/01/2021 19:37

It sounds like on the balance of probabilities they were there for a reason.

Also sounds like it's very much none of my business 😉

Thanks all,

💕

OP posts:
Bufferingkisses · 25/01/2021 20:12

Tbf they possibly arrived and were turned away if there wasn't a genuine reason 🤷

Wishitsnows · 25/01/2021 20:15

I had to book an Airbnb for a funeral which was 6 hours drive away as I could only go to the funeral and then drive back and couldn't do 12 hours straight.

LucasLeesEyebrows · 25/01/2021 20:34

[quote Peculiartimes]@LucasLeesEyebrows
Karma?
I hope it’s definitely what you describe. Some people lose jobs and livelihoods to protect others, some want a nice holidays. Sounds karma to me.[/quote]
My point is that no one knows why they were there. It could have been for an absolutely awful reason. No good will come back on the person reporting it!

Seventytwo · 25/01/2021 20:38

I would (and have) report clear breaches of the rules (e.g. the house party with 20+ guests on our quiet residential street the other week) but I absolutely would not report a couple like that based on nothing more than speculation that they might be there on holiday. That’s a whole different kettle of fish IMO.

SillyYak · 25/01/2021 20:43

I think you made the right choice OP.

AllMyPrettyOnes · 25/01/2021 21:32

@Peculiartimes

I’d report. I’m sick to make sacrifices while others don’t care so I would report illegal actions.
And how exactly do you know that they're there 'illegally'?
PanamaPattie · 25/01/2021 21:59

How disappointing.

mrboingboing · 25/01/2021 23:00

I moved into a holiday let in the town I'm living in a couple of weeks ago as I'd sold my house and my new build has been delayed for a few months.

The first night I had the police at my door late one night as someone had "reported" me. No, I had nothing to hide, I explained and the police were fine. But my 2 young children were woken and were terrified to see police on the door step, thinking we were in trouble. And it's not a nice feeling knowing one of my new neighbours reported me to the police. Rather than talking to me, I could have pleasantly explained, it's a reasonable concern. But reporting was a step too far in my view....

Glitterblue · 25/01/2021 23:04

I wouldn't, as others have said, there could be any number of legitimate reasons for them being there.

Momof4x2616x · 25/01/2021 23:05

Mind your own business and don’t be a busy body.

giantwaterbottle · 25/01/2021 23:14

No way would I report it. Mind your own business.