Anyone who is NC with mother do you let them see your children?

[jollybobs89]

Just wondering is there anyone out there who is no contact with their mother and has children??

I have quite a strained relationship with my mum and she's basically said she doesn't want anything to do with me but still wants to see my children??

I've said this won't work but she's basically now saying that I'm using the children against her?!

But people are just answering the question it doesn’t matter whose in the “wrong” the answer is the same that I wouldn’t let my children have a relationship with someone I was no contact with.

Nope.
She doesn't even know how many children I have and I'm proud of the fact that her abuse stopped with me and hasn't had any effect on my kids.

I wish I was a nutter then maybe I would feel a lot less rubbish about the situation.

Anyway I've decided we come as a family and it will stay that way it's all or nothing. Thank you for your replies it really helped.

I would go into detail but it would be a very very long post.

@FrenchBoule thank you! How do
I get to that stately home thread?

I can't seem to find it x

OP here

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/4030633-September-2020-Well-we-took-you-to-Stately-Homes-thread?pg=34

You can also post in Relationships. Lots of kind and wise folks there

No and no way