Op, I get why the thought of queuing to get a food parcel could be seen as embarrassing for many, but remember that only other folks there will be there for the same reason. Ans whomever is handing it out will know your child gets free meals. The help is there for a reason.
I also understand why you’d prefer vouchers. No one needs to know and you can use them for much more food than is in the parcel if you’re careful. You could have stretched it further.
However I’m sure you know why providing actual food is done, and also the fact that there is enoug food for one child for five lunches.
I suspect you were thinking how much you could have bought with the vouchers, in comparison to what you got. Snd also are faced with the fact vouchers are much more discreetly handled, you don’t need to go in and collect your food parcel at the school
I think you just didn’t articulate it well. You started off saying it was too meagre, them moved to you didn’t need fsm and only claimed them as a favour to the school and then moved to it was about the embarrassment of having to collect them.
If you’d just said “ I was hoping for vouchers, as I can make them stretch a lot more than a food parcel, and I am too embarrassed to go down and collect free food like this” you’d have had very different responses.