why is there no drive/work ethic to improve one’s financial situation even though I’ve just waxed lyrical about my years of hardship which presumably also could have been resolved if I had a better work ethic
I also wonder this. I know some families are financially disadvantaged through no fault of their own eg sudden job loss, illness, disability, partner leaving unexpectedly, refugee status, suffering DV etc. And I fully support these children having FSM.
But a great many families seem to view FSM as something to include in their long term budgeting. As if providing the main meal of the day for their children is always going to be the responsibility of the school/taxpayer/government.
I don’t understand why people choose to have multiple children before they’ve started a career or gained the qualifications necessary to provide. Why people don’t save up ready for starting a family, or at least reach a point where their salary covers their outgoings (including feeding their children). I know many jobs don’t pay a good wage but there are working tax credits, free childcare and so many other benefits to help parents work. I’ve always worked, including minimum wage jobs and contracts and unsociable hours. Every job was a step forward, a step up towards financial stability.
When millions of people rely on FSM long term, with no drive or action to improve their situations, society risks complacency (and mass panic if FSM provision is interrupted eg due to a global pandemic and sudden lockdown that sends schools scrabbling to provide food boxes from unsuitable ingredients, that caterers have already bought for the term). Then these parents are furious that their box isn’t big enough or fresh enough or designed to suit their child’s preferences, or they have to spend money on a bus fare once a week to collect it, or it’s too humiliating. Or they want vouchers or cash payments instead (despite knowing the school has already bought in the food and can’t afford to waste it and provide vouchers/cash instead).