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Are there no books with female protagonists 40 and over???

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Frikonastick · 08/01/2021 08:04

It’s doing my head in! Please recommend me a book that centres around a woman 40 or over. Please. I beg of you.

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Lillyhatesjaz · 08/01/2021 08:05

The Vera books by Anne Cleeve are really good

JemimaTiggywinkle · 08/01/2021 08:08

Bitter Orange by Claire Fuller.
I’m only halfway through so can’t say if I’d wholeheartedly recommend yet, it but it’s very readable.

TheFuckingDogs · 08/01/2021 08:08

The Aunty Poldi series is ace! She is a Bavarian unofficial detective who moves to Sicily to be close to family/ drink herself to death after becoming widowed.
She then starts getting into all sorts of mayhem.
She is around d 60 and the books are funny and lighthearted

HollowTalk · 08/01/2021 08:10

This question came up a couple of days ago and Fiona Collins was recommended. If you like movies, get hold of You, Me and the Movies.

mackerella · 08/01/2021 08:10

Are you looking for any particular genre? Pretty much any Anne Tyler would fit the bill, as would, say, Joanna Trollope.

Yecartmannew · 08/01/2021 08:15

If you like historical romance take a look at Cynthia Harrod-Eagles' Moorland Dynasty series.

It follows one family from medieval times to quite modern but the stories centre around the Maternal line.

Nowisthemonthofmaying · 08/01/2021 08:20

What genre?

Some of Rosamund Pilcher's would work - Winter Solstice, or September

State of Wonder by Ann Patchett

The Ruth Galloway books? Think she's in her late 30s in the first couple but then in her 40s

The Oxford murder mysteries by Faith Martin, the lead character DI Hillary Green is in her 40s or 50s

Nowisthemonthofmaying · 08/01/2021 08:21

Miss Pettigrew Lives for a Day is another good one

ShatnersWig · 08/01/2021 08:23

I believe Agatha Christie wrote 12 novels about Miss Marple. She's definitely over 40.

MilkMoon · 08/01/2021 08:23

Lots by AnneTyler, Elena Ferrante, Elizabeth Strout, Marilynne Robinson, Barbara Kingsolver, Colm Toibin, May Sarton, Anita Brookner, Alice Munro.

Respectabitch · 08/01/2021 08:23

Tehanu by Ursula Le Guin. It's part of of the Earthsea quartet but centred around the experiences and consciousness of an older woman.

ApplesinmyPocket · 08/01/2021 08:24

Agatha Raisin, a feisty soul in her 50s - humorous detective fiction by C M Beaton - I liked the books but hated the TV series, where Agatha has been glammed up and is not at all like her interesting book counterpart

Miss Marple, another "detective"... (is a theme developing here?)

Antonia Forest's Marlow stories feature a throng of interesting, realistic female characters (teenage, mostly)

110APiccadilly · 08/01/2021 08:24

Agatha Raisin.

ApplesinmyPocket · 08/01/2021 08:26

Oops I don't know why I mentioned the Marlows, being that OP asked for 'in their 50s!' Blush other than that I like to mention them at every turn Smile

Schoolchoicehelparg · 08/01/2021 08:27

Currently reading Miss Benson’s Beetle and really enjoying it. The protagonist is 47!

110APiccadilly · 08/01/2021 08:27

Cross post there. @ApplesinmyPocket do you know any way of getting hold of the Marlow books that doesn't require finding buried treasure or something to fund it? I had one of them as a child (from a charity shop), would love to get the others, but whenever I've looked online, they've been a hideous price.

BirdsRoundandRound · 08/01/2021 08:27

Small Pleasures by Clare Chambers

PinkyParrot · 08/01/2021 08:33

Persphone Books republish books written by female authors from the 30s -1960s, roughly, Dorothy Whipple is good. Not action packed, more often unfolding stories over a lifetime. I think they now publish male authors too. Look at their website.

AngusThermopyle · 08/01/2021 08:34

@110APiccadilly
This one is currently £6.49.

www.worldofbooks.com/en-gb/books/antonia-forest/end-of-term/9780140310191

AngusThermopyle · 08/01/2021 08:40

Two more here for around a tenner.

Are there no books with female protagonists 40 and over???
110APiccadilly · 08/01/2021 08:41

Thanks. Maybe I've been looking in the wrong places. You have inspired me to start searching again (this is possibly not good; I'm on mat leave at the moment so the book budget probably should be cut but won't be).

echt · 08/01/2021 08:42

"Olive Kitteredge" and "Olive Again" by Elizabeth Strout.

The Lucia books by EF Benson.

wellthatsunusual · 08/01/2021 08:43

Stay away from mystery type books if you want decent female protagonists. If you're over 40 in one of those you're either 1) a policewoman married to the job, who has succeeded by acting like a man or 2) a bereaved mother. There doesn't seem to be any other option.

SpinningTheMoon · 08/01/2021 08:43

@110APiccadilly , Girls Gone By Publishers have also been reprinting them gradually. Most are currently out of print, but one is being released this spring www.ggbp.co.uk/product/af-the-ready-made-family-by-antonia-forest/

wellthatsunusual · 08/01/2021 08:44

Or 3) an unhappily married empty nester who

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