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Are there no books with female protagonists 40 and over???

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Frikonastick · 08/01/2021 08:04

It’s doing my head in! Please recommend me a book that centres around a woman 40 or over. Please. I beg of you.

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Frikonastick · 08/01/2021 09:08

Sorry if I’m not replying to each recommendation I’m currently at the foot of Franz Joseph Glacier in NZ and the wifi is a bit spotty, the weather is due to roll in and I need material! Will be going through suggestions as internet allws. Hopefully enough juice to download at least one of them!! Wish me luck 😁

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RumJerrySailorRum · 08/01/2021 09:11

@Frikonastick

Anything in sci-fi/ fantasy? I like to be well rounded 😁
Nora Roberts does a series under a pen name (which has momentarily escaped me) about a detective set in the future. Think the detective is lieutenant Eve Dallas??

Also, the Kathy Reich's books, I'm sure temperance is over 40.
Faith Martin, her series all feature women, not all over 40 but still worth a read.

SparklingLime · 08/01/2021 09:16

VI Warshawski novels by Sara Paretsky. VI definitely passes 40 during the series and the impact of being older is shown realistically.

Snufkin2 · 08/01/2021 09:17

The Godmother by Hannelore Cayre certainly doesn't fall into any of the clichéd categories.

unmarkedbythat · 08/01/2021 09:17

Mary Doria Russell's The Sparrow and Children of God have some strong major female characters who fit the bill, although it's a stretch to say the first centres around any of them tbh.

Jennifer Crusie's Fast Women, if you fancy some "chick lit" (hate that phrase, don't know a better one).

Christopher Brookmyre generally writes women as strong and capable and not entirely defined by their relationships to men, All Fun and Games until Somebody Loses an Eye centres around a woman in her late 40s who I want to be when I grow up.

QueenRefusenik · 08/01/2021 09:20

Fantasy you say? Barbara Hambly's Winterlands books - Jenny Waynest is awesome. Dragonsbane is the first. Also her Starhawk and Sunsolf books starting with Ladies of Mandrigyn. All her books have great female protagonists but admittedly most are younger.

N.K.Jemisin's Broken Earth trilogy, starting with The Fifth Season.

Lauren Beukes, start with Broken Monsters

Patricia A.McKillip The Tower at Stony Wood

Not fantasy but Margaret Atwood The Robber Bride

groovergirl · 08/01/2021 09:31

I loved Lady Oracle by Margaret Atwood. A darkly humorous dissection of why romance writers write what they do, for the desperate women who read it. (Not us, of course.)

Some of Fay Weldon's books have 40-something protagonists; Praxis comes to mind.

And going way back -- the Wife of Bath's Tale, in the Canterbury Tales. Alison was a middle-aged woman of lusty appetite and adventurous spirit.

But yes, OP, point well made. We shouldn't have to scratch around to find such characters.

SpinningTheMoon · 08/01/2021 09:34

Mrs Harris Goes to Paris is fun, and quite a good film too!

Coldilox · 08/01/2021 09:37

The Rizzoli and Isles series by Tess Gerritsen, I think the two women in that are early 40s

QuentinWinters · 08/01/2021 09:41

Appletree yard by Louise Doughty - found this really refreshing because of the way it portrayed a woman in her 50s

The Erika Foster books by Robert Bryndza

In terms of fantasy, the Red Sister books by Mark Lawrence are female focussed, the main protagonist is younger but there are plenty of older female characters who feature heavily

CriticalWoman · 08/01/2021 09:42

The novels of Carol Shields, especially Unless, The Stone Diaries, and Happenstance.
Girl, Woman, Other by Bernardine Evaristo

EastofEdna · 08/01/2021 09:42

Have you read of the Sara Paretsky VI Warshawski books? I really enjoy them, but as she has aged within the novels it has made it a bit more problematic for some of the much older characters, her neighbour was in his late sixties/seventies (I think) when they started in 1982; and there is no sign of Lottie retiring! BUT they are so well written I can suspend my disbelief.

CatherineMaitland · 08/01/2021 09:45

Susie Steiner's Manon Bradshaw books if you like detectives. Katie Fforde and Erica James if you like romance.

Barmbraic · 08/01/2021 09:53

Terry Pratchett's Discworld. The witches books have Nanny Ogg and Granny Weatherwax and are brilliant.

Zitouna · 08/01/2021 09:56

All Fun And Games Until Somebody Loses an Eye - Christopher Brookmyre. Thriller, it’s fab.

Zitouna · 08/01/2021 10:00

Oops someone’s suggested it already! In my enthusiasm I didn’t RTFT...

QueenKit · 08/01/2021 10:04

Old baggage - Liisa Evans

Scabby queen - Kirstin Innes

BringMeTea · 08/01/2021 10:09

Another vote for Winter Solstice.

SkylightAndChandelier · 08/01/2021 10:13

I loved Remnant Population by Elizabeth Moon - it's SF, but that's really just the setup, it's more about the older woman and her situation.

LakieLady · 08/01/2021 10:15

@echt

"Olive Kitteredge" and "Olive Again" by Elizabeth Strout.

The Lucia books by EF Benson.

I was going to suggest the Mapp & Lucia books! They are a real favourite of mine, very funny, and always cheer me up.
honeylulu · 08/01/2021 10:19

When I go to Sleep. It was one of the things that really struck me about the book.It is also essential to the plot as she has to be old enough to have an adult child and to be horrified at her middle aged face in the mirror(memory loss).

unmarkedbythat · 08/01/2021 10:21

@Zitouna great to see other people recommending Brookmyre, one of my favourite things about his books has always been the way he wrtites his female characters as interesting people in their own right, rather than barely sketched out notmen who are there to support the important male characters storyline :)

Juniperandrage · 08/01/2021 10:23

Nora Roberts does a series under a pen name (which has momentarily escaped me) about a detective set in the future. Think the detective is lieutenant Eve Dallas??

It's J.D Robb

Dilbertian · 08/01/2021 10:26

@Frikonastick

Anything in sci-fi/ fantasy? I like to be well rounded 😁
Pratchet's Weird Sisters and other novels with the Witches as the main characters.

I don't think he's particularly good at writing women, but his female characters are as well-rounded and strong as his male characters. And of course his no-nonsense, perceptive comedy is fabulous.

belleface · 08/01/2021 10:30

Girl, Woman, Other by Bernadine Evaristo

It follows various female characters over the years, some of whom are 40+. And it's a brilliant book all round